Welp...DH hasn't apologized yet but last night he asked me if I wanted him to get the girls on his usual days which will be ending soon because they go back to school...My reply - "I don't care what day you get them - I am working long days this week anyway so you will need to figure out dinner...I won't be working from home come Tuesday"

He was like BUT you said you wanted to go with us to get their backpacks? I said, Welp - I don't now...I'd rather work. And why are you even getting them? They were just here for a week and they just left saturday? Shouldn't they spend atleast a week with their mom before they go back to school? She hasn't seen them all summer..."

Again...Jawdrop. "Well, we told them we'd get them backpacks and they wanted you to go..." I just said, "You should go to bed - you have to be up at 6 for work..."

Low and behold I am sitting at the kitchen table today doing bookwork and he comes home with an iced coffee for me and says, "I thought you'd need this after working on this stuff all day...." I just said "thank you"

I also took the picture down in the bedroom of he and I...and a picture I have with both of my grandmother's and I off of our dressor...I left the pictures with just he and the girls "I" made him for father's day...I think he got the picture - I wasn't kidding when I said he can find someone else to put as much work into them as I have for the last five years...good luck finding another person as strong as I am to deal with your mother, Ex, and your 9 year old devil child. GOOOOOOOOODDDDDDDDDDDDDDD LLLLLLLUUUUCCCCCCCCCKKKKKK. He's SCARED! ahahaah!