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Why does my mother treat me like sh*T? Please tell me if I am in the wrong???

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Submitted by tryingtomakeit on Mon, 05/14/2012 - 1:55pm

Ok, my mother and I have a decent mother/daughter realationship, but there is sometimes I think she likes to use me as a whipping post for her own misery.

My husband and I have been invited to a friends surprise birthday party. It is in the same town my mother lives in and she is friends with the person who is having the party.

Please understand that my mother bitches and complains about something all the time. She is really a miserable person. I love her, but have come to grips with that.

Poll: How many step-mothers out there feel like on mothers day its more about the step-kid and thier biological mother (the ex)

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Submitted by tryingtomakeit on Fri, 05/11/2012 - 9:18am

Ok, so this weekend it normal rotation and we are suppose to have sd, but becasue it is Mothers Day she will have to go home early on Sunday. We have moved since last Mothers Day so there is Travel involved.

My sd needs to learn respect!...which both her parents need a lesson too!

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Submitted by tryingtomakeit on Tue, 05/01/2012 - 9:50am

Ok so I was suppose to pick my sd up at her moms on Friday. I know my husband should be the one doing it, but I do it because he does work late, but before I committed to doing this I told him he had to have all the kinks worked out before I left to go get her.

Well, on Thursday everything was set(so they ssaid). I was suppose to go get her Friday after school.

Well, on Friday I leave a bit early and decided I want to go shopping before I go pick her up. I had this gut feeling something was going to happen so I took my time shopping.

Please enlighten me...why can my husband NOT tell his daugther no....i need answers!

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Submitted by tryingtomakeit on Fri, 04/27/2012 - 9:32am

SO i am already dealing with a sick baby on top our our trip this weekend. Well it looks as if the sd will be going :(.

Well, my husbands parents were going to drop sd off on Saturday when they came through our town. We like a good 40 minutes from sd.

My husband said she called and begged him for me to comepick her up on Friday becasue she "wanted" to spend time with us. (It will be 6 pm before she gets to the house and she will go straight to her room.)

I dont beielve him. I think first off he texted her..they did not talk.

Already my weekend has started off bad......what do I do to derserve this ;(

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Submitted by tryingtomakeit on Thu, 04/26/2012 - 10:04am

This weekend we are suppose to go out of town and I am already dreading it becasue my husband told me that he is begging his daugther to go with us. WTF I was hoping for a weekend where I didnt have to entertain the sd.

Its bad enough that my husband sets outside and text his sd about how much he misses her each night instead of in the house helping me do things to get ready for the next day. Then he has the nerve to wake me up at 5 in the morning and ask where his clothes are at.

Need some of ya'lls "pick me up's" Beginning to think I married into the ex family!

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Submitted by tryingtomakeit on Tue, 04/24/2012 - 9:11am

Ok...I know the definition of divorce. I am a child of a divorced family and lets just say growing up my two familys communicated through me. I was the only link to both sides. My dads grandmother sure in the hell did NOT call my mother and chat it up!

I married a man that still talks to his ex family all the time, its not a cordgial hello and bye from time to time. I have to say he does not call the ex grandmother but she sure calls and talks to him a lot. It is really a weird situation.

Drama is my sd middle name...but I dont put up with the soap opera..got to read for a good laugh!

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Submitted by tryingtomakeit on Mon, 04/16/2012 - 9:46am

We had the sd this weekend. I picked her up (NICE ME) because the hubby had to work over. Before she got in the car I could tell she was already complaining about something.

When i saw her I came close to asking her if she fell in the mud and didnt wash her face because her make-up was about 2 shades to dark and she had a line. THat is one of my pet peeves. If you want to wear make up please learn how to apply the crap! I really cannont believe her mom lets her out of the house looking like a clown, but thats her business ha.

Please think about me tonight at banquet

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Submitted by tryingtomakeit on Thu, 03/22/2012 - 1:34pm

Please say a prayer for me tonight. I am attending my sd sports banquet. My husband and myself will be going. It would not be that bad if the sd maternal grandparents did not attend. But after each banquet the maternal grandparents have to get tons of picture of sd with mother and father. It is really weird situation and me and the stepfather just stand there and look around.

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