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Another month goes by and the court case drags on
What is it with family court? Parents are fighting over children, children are trying to align themselves against one parent and the only people that get anything out of the waiting game are the attorneys!
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When BM assumes...
This is a funny but stupid story. There is always at least 1 drama a week with my BM.
DH and I took over a puppy that BM wasn't supposed to have. I wrote her an email for the shot records etc. I want to take the puppy to get spayed. Yes, be a responsible pet owner and she doesn't even now what that word even means!!
I wrote her twice and she still doesn't respond. Well, SS13 told me because I was going to wait in the car until she brought me the papers. Told me that she didn't want me to get the dog spayed because she thought I would ask her for money for it.
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No show
BM is once again a no show at a doctors appt that she urged to have my husband make.
SS13 is too smart for her and she doesn't have a clue. He is going to a "healthy weight" program locally and of course when he is at BMs they eat out and serves nothing but sugar. At the appt they suggested that we buy bottled water and have him take it over and tell his BM that he needs a healthier choice.
He doesn't like going to this but BM started all this doctor BS because she is the one that is trying to prove in court that my husband is keeping her son fat!
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Now its my turn.....
I gave myself a nice Valentines gift yesterday.....I went to an attorney's office to start the paperwork for my case.
I have both my kids and my ex seems to think paying 1/2 for lunch money for school is what I deserve.
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This is too good to be true........
DH and BM are currently in a custody battle that BM started. (just like all other crazy BM's is all about the money and not the kids) They are about a week from their depositions. DH attorney has several big lies to catch her in so it should be fun...to bad I am not able to watch her squirm.
BM was in contempt of the decree and when she moved back to our area last Aug I knew something was up. This was on the heels of taking the boys to every imaginative doctor appointment that she could make. Yes, DH got served in Oct for change in custody.
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Who else has saved the day from the irresponsible ex?
DH and I picked up SS14 and SS13 at BMs. SS14 seemed to be in a bad mood (usually he is after a weekend with her) and DH asked him what was wrong.....SS14 (got emotional like he always does.)
Background......BM moved out of a rent free house that her mother owns to paying rent for the first time in 3 years. According to the kids, she wasn't supposed to be having any pets. BM had 2 dogs and got rid of 1 but keep the older pet the boys had had since they were a lot younger.
Weekly Drama...........and the deposition
After BM's weekend, SS11 came over on Tues visitation and seemed to be in a mood. DH asked only 1 question....How are you doing? And out came the flood gates. All weekend SS11 was hounded by BM about wanting to live with DH. That bioytch actually told him that if he lived with him then he would see her for 7 years and read him emails from DH and her. (he could be so lucky if that was the case)
Needless to say, DH was pissed called his attorney who then in turn called the GAL. The GAL came over for a surprise visit and spke to all the boys. She wasn't happy when she left.
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A great example of fine BM fine parenting...
We leave in OH and right now the temp is about 4 degrees. Yesterday, when DH picked up the older 2 boys the youngest SS11 was red faced and crying. No gloves,hat or a scarf. He was outside with a snowboard. Ok just just right outside the house but down a couple of streets at the main road (which is real busy)
When DH got home he sent BM an email about the situation and how it was inappropriate to have the kids outside at all. She finally wrote back in some lame ass excuse on what happened.
In a nutshell....
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About to give BM a New Years' gift..........
My H is going to the attorney's tomorrow morning to sign the papers to officially file for custody. H has only been defending himself (along with thousands of dollars we don't have) with his crazy BM.
BM has no idea. The attorney told my H that once he could talk to the GAL and see how she was going then he would file the papers.......lol She has built our case after she filed in Sept.
Happy New Years' Bioytch!! She is going to finally get what if coming to her!!
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Discovered that we were only defending ourselves.........
My H found out from our attorney that he is only defending himself in the custody issue that was filed by pathological liar BM. He told him that if the evidence is untrue (which is) then she would pay our attorney fees but shared parenting plan would stay the same. In Ohio, you have to file physical and psychological harm for custody. Hello?? If I thought my own children were in danger from their BD, they wouldn't be back until the court issue was done!