Breast Development?
My DW follows SD13 and SS11 into the bathroom at shower time occasionally to check for breast development and new hair.
She will also have everyone stop what they are doing to see how big and "muscular" SS11 (the one that has hit me) is getting. The child is about as wide as he is tall...no muscles. She also stares at him, looking his body up and down, in admiration.
I look at my DDs and wonder where time has gone but don't feel the need to look at them naked or stare at them.
I find it kind of disgusting in a way.
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Yeah... I talked to my girls
Yeah... I talked to my girls about what would happen to their bodies once they got a little older. I, however, do not feel a need to violate them by actually checking for development.
Very creepy!
Very creepy!
You don't need to see a
You don't need to see a pubescent girl nekkid to know if she's got any bust development. One day you look at her over there on the couch WITH her shirt on and you say, dayum, girl, we gotta get you to a store. Or one day the girl comes to mom begging, "All my classmates have one! I need one, too!" Or mom notices a teen boy looking at her daughter and has a heart attack and takes care of business. Note none of that takes place in the bathroom or is anybody nekkid.
With a boy, he'll tell you himself one day. It sounds like this, "Moooo-uhm! Shut the door, gah, I'm dressing in here, what's wrong with you!!!??" Or possibly it sounds like this, "Hello, Dr. Pediatrician? I'm a bit worried about my 16 year old. He seems smaller and smoother cheeked than other boys his age. Wednesday at 4:30 will be fine." Note none of that takes place with Mom having inspection goggles on. And she does not need to be calling the pediatrician for delayed puberty until the boy is more like 16, certainly not 11.
INVASIVE MOTHER ALERT!!!! Sirens wailing! Klaxons clanging! Houston, we have a problem!!!!
Hells to the N-O. If it's a
Hells to the N-O.
If it's a helicopter BM, she's still answering the questions from the Dr for them AND in the room for everything. Yes, this has happened to SSs.
I started asking my BS at 9/10 if he wanted me to step out and I thought that was kind of old. I also only have a slight clue as to his pubescent development because he was curious about how much underarm hair he should have and he showed me his pits.
Red Red Wine
Damn straight she should be
Damn straight she should be out of the room if doc is examining a teen boy. Tell what she knows then leave the room.
Uhmmmm...yes. This is
Uhmmmm...yes. This is inappropriate. Why on earth is she checking for breast development??
I am even trying to work now with SD6 on shutting the door when she is changing and on knocking when she wants in my room. I do help her wash her hair in the shower, but hoping she'll be doing that on her own within an year. I sure as heck will NOT be doing anything of the sort when she is 13. The thought sickens me!
Excellent! I'm plagerizing
Excellent!
I'm plagerizing that, just to let you know.
Red Red Wine
Trust your gut. It is just
Trust your gut. It is just not appropriate. You probably should do what you can to nip this behavior right now.
This is very unusual behavior and really is more about your DW's mental health than any prepubescent/pubescent changes with her offspring. Is she clinging to their childhood and afraid to let them grow up? Or, is it something more voyeuristic and weird? This board is a microcosm of traditional European/Australian/USA culture and everyone is on board with you that this intrusive behavior by your DW is bothersome.
If I were the other parent of these children, I'd be seriously considering yanking custody.
I just got sick to my stomach
I just got sick to my stomach reading this.
That is invasive, creepy and wrong on so many levels.