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this_is_me's picture

Why? Why? Why? 

Why does this woman insist on doing everything in her power to cause trouble? DH gave her 30 minutes with the kids and now they are asking all kinds of questions about where grandma has to go to fill out papers about them? And why would she have to go to where guilty people go to get in trouble? And my favorite..... Why do we have to start going to grandmas every day so she can see us before she can fill out more papers? Oh and equally as grand.... Grandma says you never answer the phone when she calls you.

I had to tell them grandma is just mad at us right now (DH and I) so she was just saying things and that I don't have time all day to be waiting around for grandma to call me not to mention I was in the bathroom when she called last and I wasn't answering the phone on the pot!

I'm tired of this woman. Its been 3 weeks since we let the kids go to her and then she pulls this garbage when given an inch. Can't wait to be the one to tell DH...... (Insert eye roll)

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beebeel's picture

I'm not sure why your DH keeps allowing his toxic mother access to his kids. He is damaging them by giving her time with them. 

Siemprematahari's picture

If possible I'd cut contact with the kids and their toxic grandmother. Its causing them more damage than and creating h@ll for you both. She has no respect & boundaries, something has to give.