I know one of the policies of Steptalk is no names but sometimes I want to give BMs name so anyone who meets her knows her for the fake she is. As for the Golden Rule, it wouldn't matter if she did it to me because I honestly don't think I have done anything for her to get as upset as I do.

This is so petty but I am sick of hearing from people that DH and her still keep in contact with that BM is such a sweet person etc. Is it that people can't fathom the horrific things a mother is capable of doing?

Even now, as I watch SS9 play with his Star Wars Legos, he looks so happy. He has taken his meds for today, won his baseball game yesterday and is going to swim in the pool. Its hard to believe that 9 years ago, you could see his ribs, he had heart problems due to malnutrition, his mother tried to abort him, and that he couldn't talk until he was 4. He is so intelligent, talks SOOO MUCH (although you can tell he has a speech problem), and although skinny, looks very healthy. SS11 never went through any of this.

DH said that it is mostly because people can't believe a woman/mother can hate or resent their child because they were not born a girl.

Is that really it?