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Does anyone else just get ill inside when they know DH & BM are negotiating something. I do, and I swear my Dh ( dumba$$ husband) can not send her a response back that isn't argument evoking. He has insighted two incidents with either BM or BM related with his family that I ended up having to p/u the pieces after since the first week of June. She is very selfish when it come to thinking she should get every minuet of the kids time, but he is just such a uncouth doofus at times my head spins.

how is this my fault?

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My husband's boss just put a moratorium on vacation starting August 1st today. We get my stepsons for 1 week every summer & I have been on DH about taking off & he has never checked. I work for a small company & my boss is funny about how many people can be off at once, well my boss has the majority of July off & when he is not gone the owner is in town.

OMG!

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I just did some detective work & discovered that BM's nasty BFF that she constantly exposes my skids to has been arrested & convicted of theft twice. When BM had this woman's kids for a month because she was in Ls Vegas for job training she was in the Shakopee woman's prison serving 30 days. WTF! BM had this woman watch her house when she was out of town this month & she left her garage door wide open & was a bitch to me when I stopped by her place to tell her because I was afraid someone could rob BM's house or the dog could get out.

Just one night

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that's all I want. Both my SS play baseball. For the last 4 years our lives from April through mid July revolve around it no less than 5 nights a week. That is 5 nights of BM kids. Anyway this year is only 4 nights BUT we are exposed to BM & her BFF the manimal who isn't very nice to us & is loud & obnoxious. I have always gone to all the kids events rain or shine all these years but this year I have cut back on going BS will be 3 & I spend the games chasing him all over the place for 2 1/2 hours after working all day & commuting an 1 1/2.

So my husband says he wants a divorce.

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Not sure if this is just him throwing it around because mean old me is not sympathetic to his many maladies or his laziness, and how frigging slow he is or my having to practically drag his butt out of bed in the morning & my not having much patience for having to do it. So this morning after my telling him he was wasting time calling for the dog to just go upstairs & get her he tells me I am a b*tch, so I told hime well your an a$$hole. He says he is done & wants a divorce. I just spoke to him to let him know something about BS and he says he is still thinking about it. WTF!

OT - Too funny

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DH just sent me this...

Your son has a mind like a steel trap, and it may interfere in your desire to take it easy tonight. We were walking through the kitchen this morning and he said, “Mommy and I are going to bake a cake tonight!” I explained to him that Mommy isn’t feeling very well and may not be able to do it tonight. His answer: “But a piece of cake would make her feel better!”

Our BS will be 3 next month and is too smart for his own good.

Am I wrong to be upset

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This weekend was my babyshower held in my home town. My sister flew in from across the country for it. I am 32 weeks today & was dx as anemic and have felt run down the last 3 weeks. I caught a cold from ss 9 that turned into a sinus infection & bronchitis & had beem miserable all week.

4D ultrasound

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We had it done on Saturday & he is perfectly beautiful!!! It was very exciting although my little pumpkin was a little uncooperative. I had to lay on my side so we could see his face. Funny boy kept trying to turn with me... when he wasn't putting his hands infront of his face. Smile

The best part is he is dead ringer for youngets ss, who also is my DH's mini me. As soon as we saw him on the screen I told DH OMG he looks like SS! He has both your nose.

Being a "real mom"

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I have a very good relationship with both my SS's. I treat them no differently than if they were my own. The oldest started baseball & this year his mom signed up to help. Once again not bothering to find out all the details & now DH & I are stuck running around to make it all happen.

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