Just a quick update DH's family LOVES ex. Dh 's family is nuts & due to several incidents DH has divorced them as well. Ex & BF are invited to DH's family events & we are not. DH had to fight family for ex NOT to be invited to youngest brothers wedding. ( my first intro to extended family) His older brother ( who runs the show) is a saddistic a$$hole who physically, mentally abused my DH his entire life. He also did unspeakable things that DH has never told anyone but me & EX & she still has contact with him.

Yesterday I took a pregnancy test & it came out positive!!! Both SS have told us they want a baby brother & it looks like it may happen. I am waiting for Dr to call back as the last one was ectopic & there is a 20% reoccurance rate. The boys were pretty upset last time when we lost the baby at 101/2 weeks so this time we are gonna hold off till we have to tell them, just in case something goes wrong.

My husbands parents ( who by the way had not spoken to us since they pretty much ignmored us at oldest ss football game & spent all their time with ex & her boyfriend & his kids)emailed us & called to have us put aside a weekend in Dec to celebrate the holiday. We are terrified that she is planning some weekend get away with my husband's two brothers & their families. ( My husband was terrorized his entire life by oldest brother & hates him. Not to mention they all pretty much ignore my existance because they are so in love with EX)