Absolutely LOVE DH but sometimes I just think enough is enough and I wanna walk out! (just a feeling)
Anyhow, SS6 was taken out of daycare and MIL said she would pick him up everyday after school to help us out because we needed a new car and couldn't get on unless we were making up the difference of the money some how. MIL was happy to help. I asked DH to be sure of this because his mother is a mental case already!!! He said it was a go. All of the kids (five total) just started school this Monday and MIL has gone mental 2ce! Saying she isn't watching or picking up SS6 anymore. (BS4 goes to daycare, and older three walk home) So when this happened again this morning, he stayed home so he could get the kids from school today. (I am going to school and in clinicals so there for I cannot miss and I refuse to quit or put my life on the side AGAIN for kids that EVERYONE keeps telling me that aren't mine) DH has full physical custody, BM gets kids every other weekend. I asked DH what he planned on doing? We really had three options, 1) put SKs in daycare and make BM pay for something for once 2) give the kids to her and you pay out the butt to her (after she has only given DH 50$ in five years) or 3) let the kids go over there every other week so you don't have to pay anything since it will be equal (which is a BAD idea!! My ex-husband and I have shared custody and it is really bad for the kids..its never a stable environment, theyre always on the go!) So I told him I didn't like option three at all, for the kids sake. His OPTION to solve all of this was to get rid of my new car he just bought me! ARE YOU KIDDING ME!!?? If that really happens I will be pissed off! I get home today from work..SKs are gone! I said, "where are they.." DH told me the went to BMs for the weekend (not her weekend!) and they will be at her house all next week too! He did not even tell me what he was going to decide, that was the only thing I had asked of him. "Let me know what you decide please before you make any decisions!" He hasn't even said much to me about their conversation or how long this is going to be, for good or short time? Nothing! I think I deserve a bit more respect than this, I have been taking care of Sks for over five years! I don't care to know the details but, I do want something! This happens all the time..even though he tells me he hates BM, I always feel like he is letting her make decisions (that's why he won't tell me anything) or taking up for her in a sense sometimes. Nothing ever changes.