I sure appreciated all the response on this topic last week. So here's the update - my ss15's 19 yr old gf's parents found out and kicked her out and sent her away. They were very apologetic and really thought we were going to press charges, since there was sex involved. (in case you didn't read my original post, my ss15 was secretly sneeking out at night meeting up with his friend's sister who is 19). So it's all history, or so we hope. Ss15 has been hanging around all afternoon on the couch not really moping, but just laying there watching tv and napping. I haven't seen this much of him in about 3 months! Since he's been going out at night for many weeks he is probably going to be catching up on a few zzzz's for awhile. I'm just happy for SO that this worked itself out without us having to really be the bad guy. It makes it easier even tho we know that very soon we would have had to do something more serious then padlocking the gates and bolting the front door. That only slowed him down a bit.