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Mil is arriving today for the weekend

sterlingsilver's picture

Submitted by sterlingsilver on Thu, 07/25/2013 - 9:09am

Oh yay, NOT. I like her enough but it's the fact that then ss16 comes out of the wood work and sits around and listens to the adults endlessly and is always so restless and annoying. I might be the only one who notices though, and now that he is older he also goes on outings with us and Grandma always lets him sit in the front. That's my spot, in the front with DH. Ba. Annoys the hell outta me. I think this weekend I am going to politely turn down going out and instead enjoy the quiet house. DH won't like it but suddenly my tummy hurts or something. I know that might be obvious but hell us smoms gotta do something to preserve our sanity right? lol

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QueenBeau's picture

Submitted by QueenBeau on Thu, 07/25/2013 - 9:16am

I would just say I don't want to go. End of story, no sugar coating it lol. I do all the time & DH understands.

Does she make you sit in the back seat???!

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Submitted by clydella on Thu, 07/25/2013 - 9:45am

I would stay home and enjoy the break from them as well. I love my DH but I love my alone time at my house, just me and I can do whatever I want. Just tell your DH you want him to have some alone time with his Mom & Son, he can't make you the bad guy for that.

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Submitted by kathc on Thu, 07/25/2013 - 10:48am

Go and sit in the front seat, next to your DH. If grandma tries to say anything, your DH needs to tell her "that's sterling's seat"

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Submitted by sterlingsilver on Thu, 07/25/2013 - 8:08pm

Well they did all their running around and outings while I was at work. I get home to my kitchen having been taken over, supper in the oven and things everywhere, which is usual for mil. So I sit and drink a glass of wine but then along comes ss16 and sits beside me on the love seat while we are watching a crude comedian talk about sex so I got up and sat on the arm of DH's chair and finally wander outside to water my garden and sulk by myself. Now I am in bs15's room and drunk and not very happy. DH comes in and says oh there you are, why are you not out with us and I say I'd like to snuggle on the love seat with him not ss. He walks out with a grunt. I am so tired right now after 8 hours of working and to come home to have to endure ss is almost more then I can bear. *sigh*