How can DH not get this through his thick skull?

SS12 is an asshole. Every day this kid talks back, yells, argues, defies rules, disrupts our home… Personally, I believe he does this on purpose and so do a LOT of people that I have discussed this kid with – INCLUDING DH’s own mother.

About a year ago, DH left a pretty damn good paying job that had a lot of stress. I supported this decision, even though it scared me. I tried to understand and put myself in his shoes..

He took another job that, well.. he gave no effort to. First 6 months he was on a ramp up pay - then after that, straight commission. For 6 moths he did nothing at all. Sure.. maybe he did a little work, like an hour each day cold calling from the couch!

I was frustrated, but again.. tried to be an understanding wife..

Every year, I pretty much put out the same Christmas/winter decorations - give or take a few that I pick up as new.

I have a slight "thing" for snowmen.. lol! I love them and have quite the collection of snowmen things - I figure they are more than just a Christmas decoration and can leave some of them up all winter

First off it was when the cat had to be put to sleep - he offered nothing to my daughter or I in the form of condolences.. I put that aside.

Then on my birthday (which sucked ass) he not once said happy birthday.

Then, my cards (that I didn't open on my bday because it sucked - I just went to bed) vanished.. I didn't do it. Dh didn't do it. My daughter didn't do it. Pretty sure ss15 didn't do it (not his character).