My H calls his son. I know and understand why he calls him. Now very rarely when he calls him is ss talkative and friendly. It is usually yeah Dad gotta go Dad fine Dad bye Dad and all the while BM in the back ground telling ss to tell your daddy bye or you are burning up my minutes.

In last blog I posted about H dropping son off and child care his mom has him at when the 13 year is not watching him and I reported that it was a dump.

SS7 called his dad yesterday about 4:30 and was in great mood and said hey dad I am calling you from mom's phone and was just a talking! That just made H's day. H started asking him how his day was and where did he stay today as his 3 step sisters who keep him were at their mom's. H could tell that SS was trying to OK with his mom that he could tell his dad where he had stayed that day so his mom would not get onto him. Once SS did that BM started yelling you are burning up my minutes get off the phone and so on.

I am not dreading the fact that SS is coming I am happy to see him. I am dreading seeing him walk in on his bottom lip. See BM calls H at 6:30 this morning to very rudely inform him that she will be dropping SS off tonight. She is so hateful all the time. Well very few and far btw are the times that she drops SS off. H usually does all the transportation. Anyway whenever she does bring SS she grills him the whole way over here about coming and how awful we are etc. essentially make SS feel bad for coming and dreading the situation cause of how his mom will act.