We got email from our attorney that said she ran into BM's attorney at the court house she wanted to know if we were willing to get together again for an informal mediation with our attorneys before we are supposed to go to court next month.

We trying for 50/50 and our date is Sept 24th. They all been going to counseling and that not going all great for BM as she has said she angry H wants more time and she has no reason why he should not have more time. also counselor told that the past needed to be let go of cause it was hurting SS.

How many out here have had H file for change of parenting and child support and the case turn out in H favor reducing the support owed. Let's say the support was hypothetically cut in 1/2. Did the judge reduce it back from the day H had his petition filed?

So my last blog or 2 has been about the counseling that H, SS, and BM are attending and how H feels counselor is taking BM side and he is the only one participating.

Well BM goes in there and acts all high and mighty and perfect. Well of course this infuriates H and he wants to jump across the room and choke her but that is not the best course of action for obvious reasons. Well when he sees her being like this in addition to wanting to cause some physical pain he gets so upset and has so much to say that he does not know what to say or where to start so he shuts down.

SS has ADHD. My SS, H and the BM have been attending counseling for SS. The past 2 weeks H and BM have had session with counselor seperate from SS session.

During those 2 sessions BM has stated that H is to hard on SS and that he has no patience with him. Her reasons for us being to hard were due to his chore list which consists of: make bed, hang up clothes, take out trash, set table, clean off table, sweep floor after eating. Then H has no patience because of his ADHD.