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I wish my husbands ex would run away again

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Submitted by STEP-MISERY on Sat, 04/10/2010 - 9:27pm

So my 14yo step son is in a residential facility trying to get a grip with his anger towards his mother. She has walked in and out of his life for the better part of 9 yrs. She has struggles with addictions of many kinds and has had a revolving door on her bedroom for years. Now she magically is all better and somehow coming out of this smelling like a rose. I am now being told that I am not his parent and need to step back. I feel like I don't belong in my own family and I am not sure if I am more hurt or pissed.

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Submitted by STEP-MISERY on Mon, 04/12/2010 - 9:03pm

He does know but all the councilors keep telling him to keep communication open and give her a chance. He is so torn and feels so guilty on top of that he so desperatly needs closure to past events. He called her out on an incident where she assaulted him. He came to live with us after showing up with bruises on him arms and back. When he confronted her in front of a therapist she convinced the therapist that he was exagerating and that she just spanked his face. She takes no responsibility for anything and puts blame on a 14yo. I have never hated someone in my life but that women uuuuuuuuuuurrrrrrrrrgggggg. I just really wish she would find one of her loser guys and a vile of crack and just disapear again. I hate feeling that way but jesus if I feel this frustrated how do the kids feel.