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Update to ss14 took a swing at dh
So I posted previously regarding ss14's freak out last night (including his attempt to punch dh, his elbow check to me - while holding dd1- and his attempt to call BM to ask if he could live with her).
Surprise!!!!
BM tried to put me and dh down. Didn't work as SS knew he was in the wrong. SS asks, if bm comes here to get me will you call the police (as we have a restraining order against her). We let SS know we will take him and his belonging straight to his mom's home (knowing full well that this will never happen).
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Oh it's going down tonight
This morning dh came home after dropping kids at school. Pissed at ss14. SS had scouts last night and dh saw that a school friend was there. Dh asked ss how friend liked scouts and SS said that he thought it was lame but he was going to continue til eagle scout. SS said he was quitting in June.
Dh got pissed and told him he could pay us back the $350 we've paid so far (as he just started) and he can just quit now. That was the end of the story til after school. SS knew he was in deep shit. The ride home he kept grabbing dh's shoulder, "I love you dad".
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I'm on strike and duh dh, don't have my sick daughter watch the baby
My kids came home sick in Monday from their father's They spent the day upstairs and I kept myself and baby downstairs. Dh is a stay at home dad for dd1 and I mostly work from home (which means I cook, clean, handle finances and kids schedules).
Anyway dd13 stayed home in Tuesday as well. I had a lot to do and every time id come out of my room, dd13 would be downstairs. Dh would also ask her to take the baby as he was trying to complete a project. I kept asking dd13 to out the baby down, and would ask DH not to have my sick daughter watch/ hold/ feed the baby. His response?
The Evolution of SS
THis is just a blog to give hope to all the SMs out there.
When DH and I started dating, SS was about 11 and lived with his father full time. Mom had no visitation but would pop in every three months or so, usually drunk and cry to SS about how she missed him. When I would see SS, he would give me dirty looks. When DH and I began taking our kids out together to do things, SS would pout, throw a fit, accuse DH of liking them more than him.
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BM's Has a Stalker. The Monday NIght Edition
SS14 had his court ordered call with his mom last night (Monday). (DH has a RO against her so she is allowed to call our home twice weekly to speak with SS).
We had let him know that his mom called on Friday, three hours after he got out of school. She asked to meet the following day for her visit, but then didn't bother calling or texting till 3:30 and she just asked for SS to call her.
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Bm has a stalker. Part two of yesterday's update
Ss returned home around noon. We let him know that his mom had texted around 3:30 on Saturday asking to talk. I suggested that he could call her if he wanted and that he could blame everything on us and not mention the "stalker": ( he didn't know he got out, dad took me somewhere with the other kids, I didn't know, etc).
Ss14 stated he didn't want to speak with her.
He has his court ordered call tonight. I'm sure there will be more.
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Bm has a stalker. This is today's uodate
So as we thought, Bm did not bother calling until 3:30. She didn't even go through the motions of asking DH to meet her half way so she could have her visit.
She just sent a text asking for ss to call her. DH didn't respond. Ss is at his cousin's. He can speak with her in his standard night in Monday and Wednesday of she chooses to answer her phone. (She's missed about half of her calls in the last few months)
Hmm. Maybe her stalker had his way with her
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Here's how it played out
Ss14 was out of school at noon yesterday. We picked him up. About three hours later, BM started texting DH, "no one told me ss got out early... I guess I can't trust him to tell me his schedule...I'm calling the police ..."
DH texted back once stating thst SS was with him, we were busy now and that she could call later to discuss getting him tomorrow. She spent another 30 minutes texting, threatening to call the police of DH didnt tell her right then when he'd meet her tomorrow. DH sent one final text saying to make sure to tell the police she was three hours late.
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Bm had a stalker. Part two
Thanks to everyone who weighed in on my previous blog.
Dh has decided just to let it all play out. He is not sending SS to his moms this weekend. End of story. Period.
We figure waste case scenario will go something like this ...
Bm will show up a scook at 3. No one will be there as school lets out at noon tomorrow ( she know this already if she used her court orders phone calls to ask SS about HIS life rather than using her calls to unload on her son about all that is wrong in her life).
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Bm has a stalker so we're not sending SS this weekend
Bm told ss14 that she had a stalker that just got out of jail and she wanted him to know "just in case something happened to her". Based on this info, we told SS that he would not be going to his mom's for visitation this weekend. We told him he could ask her to stay and use the Halloween with friends excuse or his dad could go to the court and get an emergency order to stop her visitation.