Update on the Craziest BM on Stalk
We got a call from the detective today asking for specifics on her breaking the order. He aske DH to come down to show him his phone.
He took the phone, downloaded the text log and said it all looked pretty clear cut to him. He stated that the reason nothing happened in the past is because BM could argue that the texting was in regards to SS. This time, it clearly had nothing to do with SS or visitation and was clearly outside of her court ordered time to call.
He stated he would provide the info to the DA and they would probably prosecute. (Of course, the DA could look at it and choose not to, but he stated again that it was all pretty clear at this point. Of course BM has a right to defend herself, but ,,, the truth is the truth).
Can't wait!
Oh, in a perfect world, BM would go to jail causing her to miss court. DH would be awarded child support at the court date based on the info DCSS obtained. She would not pay, she would not show up for visitation. DH would file for sole custody and BM would have to start over and pursue visitation with SS once she gets out of jail.
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Oh you know I say that all
Oh you know I say that all the time and DH swears up and down that she used to be SO different and responsible and that she was a good mom for the first year of SS's life?
I just roll my eyes. Um, how was she a good mom, exactly? She went back to work her two jobs, two weeks after he was born, put him with a babysitter or had DH pick him up - even though she did not HAVE to work because DH made very good money at the time.
He also states that she changed and got super ghetto when she made friends with her girlfriend.
I think that crazy runs in her family and it just took a while for it to really "take" with BM, but she is full on nuts now.
Who knows. He also says his biological clock was ticking and she was his booty call at the time so he figured, "what the heck". (Sounds like a solid plan, DH).
Oh wait, and let's not forget
Oh wait, and let's not forget that she went into labor early and had SS a month early because she was neurotic about getting fat and would spend several hours a day on the treadmill.
MIL thinks she may have even been doing speed to stay thin during the pregnancy.
Oh, and i'll be happy to send you a picture.
That's the worst! I swear, SS
That's the worst!
I swear, SS looks nothing like DH. Our baby is the spitting image of him.
... but whatever. DH has asked if I thought SS looked like him and just politely say no.
My DH is filipino and
My DH is filipino and Cherokee indian and SS has blonde hair...and gets sunburned in the daylight
Good to know I'm not the only
Good to know I'm not the only one. When I first met DH years and years ago and he mentioned his "son", I was looking around for a little brown haired boy. You can imagine my surprise when this little green-eyed blondie sprouted up and said hello.
What's interesting to me is that DH's family will say that SS looks like DH or that the baby looks like SS.
Maybe I'm bias... or maybe they don't want to beleive the alternative (which would be that DH was raising some other man's son on his own for 14 years).
I'll show you my BM if you
I'll show you my BM if you show me yours!!!
I think my DH must like a bit
I think my DH must like a bit of crazy.
I mean, I'm crazy, but in a good, fun way. Spontaneous and try lots of new things.
BM... well, she's just crazy - like schizzo/bipolar/narccistic... and on drugs