SS14 is home with us this weekend. My bios are at dad's. He helped dh with house projects and was up at 7. I suggested he call his friend. Friend is busy.

I suggested he call cousin. They chat. End of story

Or so we think

Dh gets a call from his mom asking why we are asking for ss to spend the night at his aunts house when we know xyz is going on. Dh let's his mother know that ss was just calling cuz to see what's going on and there was no intention of anyone spending the night.

DH is livid.
Maine with his fam. Again.