Poor SS13. We have a restraining order against bm and the court order allows her to call SS on mon and wed between 7 and 8. Tonight we were headed out to boy scouts for my two boys and ss's first pack meeting. When we were in the way, he said "oh wait, Im supposed to call my mom at 7".

Since bm has been slacking on callig and ss has been the one makig the calls lately, i decided to speak Up and said, "don't worry about it. She's actually supposed to call you".

SS was surprised and said, "really? She said that I'm supposed to call her".

That explains why bm no longer texts dh at 7:00, 7:01, 7:02... Asking dh where SS is. Lately, we just don't hear for her but SS will track us down in the house and say "it's time for me to call my mom" or "should I call my mom now". He's even been frantically banging on our door one night looking for the phone at 7:30 so he could call his mom.

It all makes send now. Some how, she has the kid convinced that the court order states that HE is supposed to call her.

DH calmly explained to SS that it was his mother that was supposed to do the calling and that he didn't need to stress over it. He could call her anytime he wanted to but these two specific calls were her allowed times to call.

Bm convinced the poor kid that he was supposed to be calling hi. No wonder she never called or texted anymore.

This is the same bm who told her son days before her first overnight visit tht she wasn't allowed to take him because she had court on Saturday night and it was dh's busy do she easy allowed. That was another fun one to try and explain.

She just keeps digging her hole. He buys her crap for a while but lately it all comes back and he figures it out. Dh always says what an outrageous liar this woman is and I see it more and more as time goes on.

Still not sure how a woman can do this to her child but not is she good at it. (l