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THE BLAME GAME

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Submitted by SMto5 on Fri, 07/27/2012 - 12:33pm

A few months ago BM said to DH "Stay the f**K away, they dont want you around" and all the SK's cell numbers have changed. We haven't talked to any of the SK's in about 6-7 months. I must admit, it's been nice. No Drama! But now it is begging the sh*t out of me that the SK's have been on Twitter writing things about DH. On Father's Day "F**k my Dad" "Sorry excuse of a Father" ect...then a few days ago "Haven't seen or talk to my Dad in a few months and I can honestly say I could care less." They are putting the blame on him.

WHY DONT YOU HAVE ANY SELF-RESPECT?

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Submitted by SMto5 on Fri, 02/17/2012 - 11:34pm

Why do I feel sooooo mad and upset with my DH when he talks to his kids so politely and like a kiss ass. Over the past 9 yrs he kids want nothing to do with him. Make it known that they hate him and me. One daughter put on Twitter "I hate my dad so much, he is the biggest piece of shit" One son put on Facebook that I was a "cunt, dick sucking whore" .....Now that son's birthday was a couple days ago and DH calls "Hi, how is your day, hope your having a Happy Birthday, I love you" THAT JUST MAKES MY SKIN CRAWL!! Then he tells me "I was thinking of sending my son a birthday card" MY SON??!!

O/T in-law holiday stress

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Submitted by SMto5 on Wed, 11/23/2011 - 11:15pm

Don't know where to begin but here it goes. I don't really get along with some of my sister-in-laws and some of the adult nieces. They can be so rude to me. I mean they literally will walk right pass me without saying a word. We could even be sitting at the same table and I will be ignored. I have tried to do holidays with them for my husbands sake, but I just can't do it anymore. So, this year my family has asked me to host Thanksgiving dinner at my house since it's usually at my sister's or one of my nieces. Now here comes the problem.

OT...DEALING WITH IN-LAWS!!!

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Submitted by SMto5 on Fri, 09/30/2011 - 12:25am

So pissed right now!! DH's niece is having a babyshower this Sunday. The same day my best friend, since the age of 5, is having her baby shower. Also, my bestfriend has asked DH and I to be Godparents. So, I have been making baby shower plans with my friend since the day she found out she was pregnant. Now here is some background info, DH's nephew, from an other sister, just had a wedding in August. We did not attend because BM was invited. DH made it clear to everyone, he would not attend anymore family gatherings if BM was invited. Now current drama....

Things that BM says that are so ANNOYING!!

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Submitted by SMto5 on Mon, 08/15/2011 - 10:51pm

BM went to DH newphew's wedding this past Saturday. We didn't attend because we knew that she was invited. DH called newphew, told him we will not be attending because "she" will be there. Newphew say's "we only invited her because of the kids, but you should come anyway, if she starts anything we will kick her out" DH "no I don't want to ruin your wedding cause I know it will be uncomfortable for everyone next time if you want me to attend a family gathering don't invite her.

BM on Facebook!!

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Submitted by SMto5 on Fri, 08/05/2011 - 1:55am

Can someone please tell me why it bugs the shit out of me when BM adds my DH's family or his friends on Facebook. Friends he had before they were married, even his high school friends. DH says some of this people she is adding to her friends list, she hardly had contact with or didn't even like when she was with DH. So, why would she want to be friends with them now??!! It seems this b@#ch will never get her own life!!!

BM invited to a family gathering.

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Submitted by SMto5 on Tue, 07/12/2011 - 1:07am

DH and I want to decline a wedding invitation from his nephew. Nephew keeps leaving messages wanting to know if we are going to RSVP. Nephew and his GF are good friends with BM and we know they invited her. I personally have not been close with nephew and his GF in the past 8 years. DH hasn't really spoken to his nephew either. Nephew knows the hell BM put DH through and nephew still chose to be "closer" with BM. Inviting her to their family gatherings and just hanging out on weekends clubing it up with her and what ever boyfriend she had at the time. So, how do we decline?

WHAT PARENTING SKILLS??!!!

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Submitted by SMto5 on Thu, 07/07/2011 - 11:22pm

BM posted a picture on Facebook of SS18 with a lite sparkler coming out of the crack of his behind. His pants were pulled down to his knees and the sparkler was right in the middle of his crack :jawdrop: And the caption under it read..."ha ha ONLY MY KIDS WOULD DO THIS HAPPY FORTH OF JULY EVERYONE" Is it just me? Or was that nasty!!

IN-LAWS......MAKE ME FEEL LIKE SCUM!!

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Submitted by SMto5 on Sat, 06/04/2011 - 1:51am

How do I disengage from in-laws. My DH comes from a very large family. He is number 10 from 11 children. He has 8 sisters and 2 brothers. I only get along with maybe 2 of them...1 sister-1 brother. And that's because we rarely see them. Ok, so here is the story....Been with my DH for 8 years. But just recently married in March of this year. Things are awfull with BM and Step-kids. I have 5 step-kids but only get along with the younger 2 boys a 15yo and 14yo.

)T-FUNERAL IN THE FAMILY

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Submitted by SMto5 on Sat, 04/30/2011 - 2:01am

Hi Fellow Steptalkers, haven't been on in awhile, but sad to say the inevitable has happened today. There was a death in my DH's family. My SIL passed away this morning. I feel bad cause all I can think about is I am going to have to deal with BM for aleast a few days. I've been with DH for 8 years and have only been in the same room with BM twice....and both times was a public place...a nightclub. I can't stand this women, she has brought me nothing but trouble. AND STILL DOES TO THIS DAY! She hates me! I know now isn't the time to be thinking about myself.

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