Don't know where to begin but here it goes. I don't really get along with some of my sister-in-laws and some of the adult nieces. They can be so rude to me. I mean they literally will walk right pass me without saying a word. We could even be sitting at the same table and I will be ignored. I have tried to do holidays with them for my husbands sake, but I just can't do it anymore. So, this year my family has asked me to host Thanksgiving dinner at my house since it's usually at my sister's or one of my nieces. Now here comes the problem. DH's sister is having their family dinner at the same time our dinner is suppose to be. I figured DH would stay home with me. We are suppose to host Thanksgiving dinner in "our" home, but no he is going to his sister's!! He says he is doing it for his mother and noone else. But he got the guilt trip from one of his nieces "Grandma is old and we don't know how many Thanksgivings we have left with her" so he said ever since she said that it stuck in his head. But I am hurt I want my husband here with me. Not only am I hurt because he is going to be around people who don't like me, I am hurt because this is our home and he should be here. Am I wrong? And I should mention that this women don't like me at no fault of my own. I have never done anything personally to any of them. They blame me for the choices that my husband as made concerning his children. And likewise, I don't like them because of things they have said and done to my husband but they are all fine with eachother and here I am the "bitch"