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This has been bugging me since Christmas Day. DH and I havn't spoken to SD 19 for two years. She was very upset when we announced our engagment, wrote a letter to DH, to go on with his life if she weren't in it. So, on Christmas day, we were about to pick up SS14 and SS13, who we see EOW...BM sent text to DH "what about Mary/SD19, she is your kid too?" So to avoid argument with BM ...DH told her we were going over to MIL's house which is closer to BM than to our house. BM says she would jump them off at MIL's house. So, we go out crab a couple gifts for SD19.

DISRESPECTFUL AND UNGRATEFULL BRAT!!

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SS14 posted a comment on Facebook it said "you will all be surprised when I really do it! Feel like dying" My DH seen it and he calls SS14 to ask if everything was alright. SS14 has been having trouble at school being bullied. So, DH ask SS "is everything alright" SS "yeah it was just a joke" DH "you shouldn't joke like that and you shouldn't be posting things like that on FB for everyone to read, your aunt Jane saw it too and is concerned about you, maybe you should delete that" SS14 "oh okay".

TESTING MY PATIENTS

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Just wondering how others would have handled this situation. For past 6 years have had little to no relationship with SS18. I created a Facebook a year ago SS18 wrote a message letting me know how he truly felt about me. Called me slut, cunt, bitch. Blamed me for "losing" his father. DH never confronted him about it. SS just stayed away. Six months later, saw him at a wedding in July I think he was drinking a little bit. When he saw DH and I, to my surpise, he came up to us and said "don't worry, I will come visit soon" and gave us both hugs and walked away :? .

Suppose to....Turn the other cheek!!

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ugggg so mad!!! Today was SD16 b-day, so DH calls to wish her happy birthday. "Hello Sweetheart, how is your day going so far?" Sweetheart??? Sweetheart called me a "fucking bitch" just 3 months ago!! Then he ask her "what do you want for your birthday, do you want me to buy you something or do you just want the money?" Of course she wants the money. Then he ask me did I want to go to dinner with them this weekend?? :jawdrop: HELL NO!!!

WHAT NERVE??

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Just ran DH's credit report....BM used his name for phone and internet service at her home without his permission. This happened in 2008, he moved out 2002 and they were divorced in 2004. According to divorce settlement all utilities, were not suppose to be in DH's name. This bill was sent to collections in 2009 for $251. WHAT NERVE??!!

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