I'm new to this site and I'm so excited that there is somewhere to go to vent. Here's some background information about me:

I have 3 stepchildren, sd12. sd10. ss9 and I have a Biological son that is 9 months. SD10 and ss9 live with us full-time. SD12 lives with bm. She is not biologically dh's but he had been there since she was born. She doesn't know he's not her dad. It's getting complicated because she is starting to ask a lot of questions. I'm not sure why the decided to lie to her her whole life, but that's not my call. Anyway, bm is supposed to have visitiation EOW but sees them maybe once a month. She doesn't pay cs and doesn't help with anything to support her children. I've had words with her a few times because it makes me mad that she constantly disappoints her children. Well that's a little ifo about me. I'm just so glad I found this site.