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Am I selfish or just out of my mind.....

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Referring to my previous blog. My dh seems to treat me as less important when his daughter is around. He was arguing with me one day about the sd helping out our business... He said, very loudly (enough for her to hear), that the reason I don't want her helping at the store is because im jealouse of him spending time with her. Then not long after that problems started getting worse. Sd wrote in her journal how much I was a f#@cjing bi@#h, how I was tearing her relationship with her dad apart, how she wanted me and my son, 4, to move out of the house (which is mine, was left to me when my dad died, the house I grew up in) and her and her dad stay by themselves.
Well, besides that, she was talking under her breath. Talking bad about me when she would close her door, cussing at me, calling me a fing bi#$. I finally walked in the room and told her I didn't give a damn what she thought, she needed to do what she was askef to do and smile about it or she could get the hell out... She could live with her mom who can't keep a job, moves every year, has multiple relationships, is a cross dresser etc....
I don't have to put up with that shit. If she needs something i am the one she comes to, her dad never remembers and unless he thinks about it when its covenant for him, it doesnt get done...
Now, with that all said, why shouldnt I feel a little frustration and anxiety with her coming back from summer break. Lives with us all school year, I would prefer jer to stay away as long as possible during the summer. Am I terrible? Should I see her as a threat?...