*Vent* Things I Need To Remind Myself About BM When She Is Talking Sh*t
Particularly when she is speaking ill of me in public.
#1 - She doesn't know me.
#2 - She is insecure because SD has a good relationship with me and not her
#3 - She is jealous of me because I have all the material things she wants.
#4 - She is crazy.
#5- What she accuses me of doing is usually the exact opposite of what I do and in fact she is describing her own behavior.
#6 - Most anyone who is listening to her is someone I do not know or want to know anyway.
#7 - If someone I know or want to know is listening to her then they have the sense to know that I am her ex-husbands new wife therefore BM is spewing off hatred is somewhat to be expected and won't believe her.
#8 - I am "better" than her in any way you would like to list - no matter how deep or shallow.
#9 - By letting BM rattle me she is winning, even if she doesn't know I know about what she is saying or that it bothers me.
#10 - She will LOSE it when DH and I become pregnant and things will be far worse so I need to toughen up.
#11- Only six and a half more years and SD is 18 and we WILL be done with BM.
#12- She is pissed that DH and I have a great marriage.
#13 -I am ten years younger than her. That annoys her.
If anyone has some tips to add I would love to hear them. Especially to help me get over it when she is verbally attacking me in public - and it is completely made up! It's so irritating.
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I have just one thing to
I have just one thing to remember about the SpermIdiot.
1) WHO GIVES A SHIT ABOUT THE WORTHLESS TOOTHLESS MORON!
That's it.
I love this one: #6 - Most
I love this one:
#6 - Most anyone who is listening to her is someone I do not know or want to know anyway.
I just had a conversation with my mom about that. I was, admittedly, going on and on about how DH uses the phrase "mother of my child" and it makes me want to throttle him. She was like: Well, iwishyouwould, she pushes a lot of buttons for you, doesnt she? I was like Yes! And she was like well, you know you just need to realize that the situation that you are in has made the two of you natural enemies and there is a natural competitiveness there. DH married you and he loves you; you are raising kiddo; you have a nice life together and BM doesnt like that. BM and DH lived together and had a child together and you dont like that. That's what it is and you have to accept that. So just chill.
Your mom sounds like a smart
Your mom sounds like a smart lady.
Kind of in that same vein regarding #6, a while back, DH and I were talking about something BM said to him and he was like "I get it she's jealous of you, you're jealous of her, that's just how it is."
I said, "Whoa, wait a minute, why the hell would I be jealous of her? She is no one who would ever be any one I would encounter socially or professionally. The only reason I even know her dreadful ass exists is because you fucked her a couple of times."
He got quiet after that.
That's just about
That's just about perfect...LMAO
You are Jealous of her.
You are Jealous of her. Jealous that she went to YOUR DH's life BEFORE you did, and they had a first (their first) child together...
But if she wasn't the "BM", you wouldn't feel jealous, you wouldn't even register her...
her dh is also NO LONGER WITH
her dh is also NO LONGER WITH HER because he upgraded. Just like all the other Dh's I know that left the BM sperm banks. Weird that you take a BM's side on a BM vent post. Why can't people just be nice...*sigh*
I probably am a tad jealous,
I probably am a tad jealous, but only for the fact that they had a child together. Her "being" with him before me - not so much. He never loved her therefore she never experienced the DH that I have.
I would have to say though, I've only recently been able to come to terms with any jealousy because I had trouble getting over the resentment that he knocked up what would later become a ridiculous crack whore.
But thanks beez!
Haha awesome, this made me
Haha awesome, this made me feel better today after having to deal with our BM.
She talks smack about you
She talks smack about you because you are the one person other than DH, who used to be married to her, and actually knows the truth, who knows the truth about her, and that makes her uncomfortable and it makes her feel threatened. See, she can pull one over on anyone else, but your DH was actually there, he saw who she was and what she did, and you are with him now, so A) you evidently aren't doing those things and
she KNOWS you KNOW exactly how nutburger she is! Scary huh?
Yeah, I think the same thing you said. Anyone that believes any of the drivel that slithers out of her mouth is pretty much not a person whose opinion I would value. AT ALL.
*VERY* good point and *VERY
*VERY* good point and *VERY VERY* true! I know her dirty secrets.....