I am so sick of Gold diggers and welfare queens and women who have babies to trap men, and they just seem to keep popping up more and more. Unfortunately SS's BM was all three. She had my SS to trap DH in to staying with her, yeah that did not work, then she got herself another man who's family was wealthy had his baby trying to trap him into staying with her, and when that did not work she claimed she had the kids and went on welfare but in reality she did not have custody of any of them because she is crazy! sound familiar to any of you?

Ok, so this is not a story but a REAL LIFE situation and Oh, how I WISH this was make believe! Here it goes:

Yesterday my family sits down for dinner, I noticed earlier that SS had a form to sign up for band on the counter for us to see and he either needs to rent or purchase his instruament. DH and I came to the conclusion if he wanted to sign up for band that it was fine but he needs to talk to BM about the instruament because we will not provide that for him. He looked a little sad and said ok.

I hate mondays not because it is the first work day of the week, but because SS comes back from visitation with BM. Most people drink on Fridays and on the weekend, I usually make myself a drink or have a glass of wine about 7pm every Monday, because that is when SS decides to tell us about his weekend at BM's.

Yesterday I posted "if you knew...", I guess I left out this tiny bit of info that makes a big difference! The post went something like this:
If you knew that BM/BF was physically abusing another child, would you continue to let your stepchild visit with BM/BF? advice and comments please.

Well the part I failed to also give was: if you that CPS was already contacted about the abuse, and CPS never let BM/BF know, and the incident was still under investigation, and this knowledge was brought to your attention, what would you do?