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sc12's picture

Ok so I had a baby recently and when we found out we kept it a secret for a while to make sure everything was good. Well we found out everything was great. So we told everyone. Well bm told us we couldn't tell ss. Gave us no reason just said we couldn't. Then she makes hell for us by putting things around that I was trapping dh and he didn't want to be with me. That I was the only one who wanted him. That baby wasn't dh. Ok well since he has been born she has something to say about everything. I post pictures for family out of state and she is not on my friends list but she inaits on commenting on everything she can see cause someone on her friends list and on mine, comments. And then my mil posted pics of my baby and bm asked her to print off pictures cause she couldn't see them and give them to her and bm mom said the same. So I blew up on mil and said that they had no right to have pics. That ss could have as many as he wants but bm and bm mom could not. It wasn't right and they are not part of his life and never would be. (u didn't know my half brothers dad, first time I meet him was when my brother got married) ahhh. I feel like bm is crazy enough to take my baby after all she has done.

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sc12's picture

I took them off. But they were mostly for my grandparents who can't travel and with work and school its hard to go see them. But still mil has pictures. Am I supposed to tell mil she can't have pics of her grandson.

sc12's picture

I don't trust her at all. She chooses bm over her own son everytime. I don't have one memory with her out of 6 years that isn't tanted by bm. My graduation, our wedding, when she came to see my son for the first time, vacations, holidays, ect. Everything. And bm lives with her.

Cheyenne Arizona's picture

Block her on FB! Go to privacy settings - on the first page that pops up go to the very bottom where it says "blocked people and apps" - click on manage blocking. Type in her name (or name used on fb) it should show her profile pic and click block. She can't view you then....even if your on friends of hers pages. It is great. BM's whole family is blocked! Smile

sc12's picture

Still wouldn't help mil has her on facebook. And lives with her. It was photos of my son on my mil page. That's the problem bm and mil live together and mil and bm mom are friends in real life not just facebook life