I always thought either you have values and morals or you didn't, but apparently, one could have no morals in one aspect of their life and have them in another. BM never had any trouble sleeping around on DH or even flaunting it in his face while they still lived together, yet now, when her boss asks her to be dishonest with at work to make more money, she grows a conscience? Is it just me, or does that strike you as odd? She bitches that her bosses want her to be dishonest with cliemts so the company can make more money...so she never had trouble lieing to her spouse, why not lie to a total stranger-and to keep your job no less? I really just think it is totally weird-maybe she is just getting ready to get fired from yet another job and is using this as an excuse to make herself look better-who knows.