H wanted all of us to go shopping together so SD can get some khaki shorts for school. now we get there she was vague about what she needed so i called a friend of mine who knew what was needed.wanted to make sure we got the correct things. even made the suggestion of her getting pants too while we was there with it being in abundance due to school starting. well i shouldn't have done that. i only pissed her off. she got nasty and refused to try on pants so she would have them later. attitude of i don't need them now. god forbid i cared.SD got all huffy with H about me and she walked off. He turns on me and blamed me for it all stating im the one driving the wedge because i wouldn't let him talk. he was only on her side and what he was feeling nothing about me but blame.
on the drive back him and his kids talked and i just sat there. noone included me didn't care i was sitting there slowly crying.we stopped at another so h could by my youngest a game. while he went inside he took two of the kids which left sd and my oldest in the suburban with me.my oldest unbuckled for he thought he was going in. sd made him buckle back he got a tiny bit upset but got over it. then she picked on him (calmly tho).jsut as i was about to say something to her. she stopped quickly when h and the rest got back in. i was still in tears..
i heated up food for lunch gave h his. still crying. i walked into our bedroom for a sec my youngest was in the living room playing his new game and i was about to go in there to tell him to go eat when i hear sd getting onto him then i hear him screaming.i went to find out.she was forcing him to leave the room (which he been acting out lately) .i told sd i got it. she kepted on ignoring. i told her to back off. she had the nerve to give me attitude. i ended up raising my voice saying her name to back off. little witch got nasty with me and spoke my name back. low and behold H walks in and she runs out of the room playing innocent victim.H asked what was going on and when i did. she walks passed saying i was only being nice and he flips out on me! telling me once again i never listen to him and always interrupt him. he didn't care she tried to over step me.He even had the nerve "what she cant help?" even after i told him when i enter the situation she needs to back off. its not her place!she isn't there mom i am. he says no offense but sometimes you don't do anything .i said i don't give a rats ass if i do or don't its still not her flipping place when i do get involved!!! he didn't care.only that his baby is upset once again by me.
later i bought a coffee tables set which was heavy. H back is hurt so i couldn't ask him for help.ss was in his room no way im going to bother him and sd was in the kitchen. did she offer to help? nope. did she ask anything? nope. ignored me as i struggled with all three pieces. did h say anything to her? nope! only said these were bigger.
a bit later someone messed with thermostat and it needs to stay off (coil is overheated) now someone turned it on.
now i know it was sd for we caught her doing that last night. she lied out her butt off to H making it out like my disabled son did it!bs i say. he doesnt care if the house is hot and we been gone for awhile!did h do anything? you guessed it! nothing.
H asked ss to weeded the yard two days ago still hasn't. he was complaining how he cant get him to help and how noone does anything. i so badly wanted to tell him to man up get your balls back and ground him. but nope he to worried his kids will like him.i chose to keep my mouth shut.i hate my step life!