Well as you may know my DH decided to get his son Sunday and talked with BM about why he does not want him to stay overnight on a school night. BM says son still poops his pants at her house, but he does not do it here and he sings the song crazy bitch on the bus because that is what she chooses to listen to with her 4 year old in the car and she only sees him wed. and EOW. So I guess she took it ok, she seems to have backed off and went on living her single no responsibility life, I am not sure how she can take it all so well, but on her myspace she was joking about how turning 30 is getting expensive, I am sure she was talking about my DH stopping CS to her and going after it from her. I am not sure how this is all so funny or if this is the only way she can handle it, she asked my DH to pick up a school order when we picked up ours for her because she was not coming to the parent meeting, I was shocked!!! I am in shock that she seems to handle it all so well now, she must be on great medicine or never really cared about her son in the first place and only wanted him so he would not be around me, either way I am confused how she can go from crazy lady for 3 years to not being to bad anymore!!! What is up with that??? Now are new issue is dealing with how to tell others why SS has 2 birthday parties and that it is really their choice of which one they go to. The other day a mom called asking why she got 2 invites I told her that his mom and dad are both having their own party and she should go to which ever one is the best day for her. It was weird answering that one, so should we only have family bday parties if BM is going to have one for friends or it is 09 and people will just be able to deal with the fact they are both having a party for their son???