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regmom's picture

What to do huby allowes ss to do what he wants on the bed. The bed aint mine its his and ex. Am not worried about the bed no. Its my blankents. I wash them manualy and 2 days after I change them they are dirty again. Everyone cares not coz they say its his mother's bed. I cant buy my own coz there is no space in the house where i can put it. I hate the bed, and am not at all comfortable. They agreed that it belongs to ss so i cant just throw it out it will be cruelty

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NewStepMother's picture

SKID is not allowed on my bed. And if she is in our room, she knocks and SOMETIMES my husband lets her in if she has a question. She comes in our room more often if i am not htere,.. just for a minute. But there is no reason for a child to be in your room. My daughter, 4 yrs old, comes in my room in the morning while i shower and i let her watch TV. I have no issue since she is a little girl. My husband and SKID arent there at that time.

But if the children are at the age where they can take care of them selves.. there is NO reason they should be in yoru bedroom. That's not a common area, my opinion. Unfortunately, I feel like that is the ONLY room that I can truely have peace and quiet.