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How long did you date before introducing the kids to your partner?
I read a post where the posted started dating SO in January and has already introduced the kids. It sounded like they were living together. Just curious what others have done. I thought that might be too soon.
Totally Off-Topic but I need input
Has anyone heard of Thirty-One? I saw a bag by them and I LOVED it. I did some research and it is a home party, tier selling company. I am thinking about selling it but I have some limited resources and live in a very low income area and I don't know a lot of people really well. I do have a lot of aquaintances though. I was thinking of polling them and either doing a home party or a catalog party and seeing how well I did.
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Just an update
Things are going so so for DD and I now. I miss FDH still and we are coming up on the one year anniversary. I decided to come back to ST just to remind myself why I never want to date a man with kids again. I also wanted to see how some of you are doing.
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what do you ladies think
I read a post by a BM who was upset that her exhusband was allowing his girlfriend to shower with the DS5 of the OP and ex. People actually thought this was ok. I find it creepy as a BM and a former SM. I would never shower with a skid let alone want someone to shower with my child who wasn't a bio.
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sad news
Forgive me for this post, a friend on here said she mentioned my recent loss.
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finally
FDH talked to a friend who is a lawyer and he finally decided to fight BM. The lawyer said he has a good chance of winning and he will work with us. FDH is almost back to his old self.
I just hope we win and all the drama with BM is over. I can't take much more. I'm not looking forward to SS being back home because I don't trust him.
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FDH wants to give SS to BM
I'm afraid FDH has lost his mind. BM decided to listen to the inlaws and SS has told a few mistruths which coupled with her hatred of me has made her sue for full custody. He came home tonight saying he was thinking of giving full custody to BM with the conditions of where he goes to school, where she lives, and no child support.
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bm#2 filed for full custody and increase cs
The woman who couldn't be bothered before now wants SS full time. She has been agreeing to everything and behind FDH's back going to take his son. Her reasons, I abuse SS, I won't give him food, and she doesn't like me and thinks I abuse him and will abuse him.
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what would you do?
I was unpacking a box and I found a bunch of charting notes for the hospital BM#2 worked at. Now I know ethically I should call the hospital and turn them in to them.
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FDH apparently breeds liars
I was going through the mail from our old house and there is a bill from a doctor. Hmmm its the same one that FDH accused me of seeing and gave me grief for not taking care of back in February. Turns out though it wasn't one of the doctors in the practice that I went to. It was a doctor SD21 saw and put FDH as the responsible party on. WTH are we getting another bill for? The office manager said she would remove FDH and the delinquent bill. I open the bill and it's a fourth notice for the original copay.
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