FDH talked to a friend who is a lawyer and he finally decided to fight BM. The lawyer said he has a good chance of winning and he will work with us. FDH is almost back to his old self.

I just hope we win and all the drama with BM is over. I can't take much more. I'm not looking forward to SS being back home because I don't trust him.

My mother is pissed with FDH because she has been mediating all our fights and she is starting to feel like FDH is all about SS and putting him ahead of DD. DD is her baby and she is more over protective than me. So now I feel like I shouldn't have gone to her and I know that whoever you bitch to usually stays pissed at the other party and has a hard time forgiving them but I didn't heed my own advice and now I'm paying for it. I don't know if I should tell FDH what's going on or let him stumble blind. My mom did catch on to FDH hoping she would help us with stuff because it would be good for DD or benefit DD. I think she stumbled onto it because we haven't done anything just talked about asking for help with some stuff but we never actually asked. I don't know how to get my mom past this. It was over something little that I was going to do for my mom and FDH didn't want me to so I didn't and I got pissed and told her and then later IMHO FDH slighted DD for SS. I admit I'm her mother and not his so I do love her more. She is my baby though.