SS15 decided the wanted to live with his bat shit crazy BM last week, as of today he is living with us again. I was getting my daughter ready for the day when his school called me, SS15 was caught smoking "pot" outside the school with 2 of his friends. I contacted DH and explained what was going on and headed up to the school. We go through the entire process with the interview with the police and talk to the principal to find out that its not really pot but synthetic marijuana. He is kicked out of school pending a meeting with the superintendent, and we have to wait for the lab results on the drugs to see if courts will get involved. After we leave the school, DH says we will just go to BM house and sit down and discuss SS15 with her and him both, BM not home so I call her to explain what happened with her son, The only thing the useless bitch has to say is "god why me". Seriously this is the first time he has had problems and the only thing she can think is why her. She never even asked he is was kicked out or what the legal problems were going to be or if her son was ok. Then she says it is all DH fault because he let SS15 spend the night at this friends house this weekend and the friend is the one that brought the drugs. I cant stand this woman then she talks to SS on the phone and gives him a guilt trip about child support and moving back in with us how she is going to loose money. We also had to take SS15 to doctors today because he has been having vision problems and hearing voices in his head, after the doctors appointment SS15 calls his BM to tell her what is going on with him. She makes him feel useless because he doesnt know how to explain to her what is going on with him. He finally asks her if I put readytoquit on the phone so she can explain what is going on do you promise not to start a fight and just listen to her, then she will give me back the phone. The poor kid had to repeat himself 3 times before she finally agreed not to cause problems. I explained what was going on and she tried starting problems anyway.