Thanks
Well I want to thank you for your comments and kind words of encouragement. I have tried to get him to go away with me for a weekend and he refuses, he says it won't help anyway. I talked with my husband tonight and asked him "what are we doing?" I miss him terribly and love him so much and he stated tonight that he wants a divorce. Such a blow. I wish he would go to counseling or something but no, he said he doesn't believe in counseling and said he just doesn't care anymore. He is just ready to give up on everything we have and he doesn't even seem to care anymore, nor does he appear to miss me at all. I think that is what is wrong in this world today! It's just so darn easy to just give up and walk away. I am dealing with this even though it's alot of tears right now. But my advise for families with combined children PUSH for counseling for all involved parties in the beginning and maybe then it has a chance.
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Pushed Out, I can't tell you
Pushed Out, I can't tell you how sorry I am to read your post. It's got to be very difficult for you right now. Just remember you have friends here to offer comfort and support. Please focus on doing what is best for you right now.
I know this means life-altering changes and it must be incredibly scary. Sometimes it's so easy to hang onto things because they're familiar, comfortable and easier than making changes, even if those changes would ultimately make us happier. You are being forced to make these changes now, but in time, I hope you can start to believe that it doesn't have to be the end. It may even be a new beginning.
Maybe he doesn't believe in counseling, but if you feel that it would help you, I would encourage you to go.
I hestitate to say this, but having been through a divorce myself, please find yourself good legal counsel.
My best to you.
My heart goes out to you
I agree with Bobbi completely... you do what you need to do for YOU. It's your home, don't leave it. Make him be the one to leave. Get counseling and work on making YOU happy. He will either see the changes and be positively affected by them or not, who knows? But it will help YOU and YOU is who matters. And if the divorce talk is serious, definitely be proactive about retaining a good lawyer. You never know how bad it will get and it's best to have someone watching out for your best interests when you may be too emotional to do it yourself. Good luck!
~ Anne ~
So sorry pushed out!
so sorry, my heart goes out to you. I do encourage you to go to a counselor to help guide you through these difficult times. Please keep us posted on your situation and know we care about you.
Bests,
Candice
Well my heart goes out to you..
I am so sorry...
*** one piece of advice.. when we all fall down the best thing is to face it head on and get back up and always try again.. (do not mistake what I am telling you , I am not saying find a new man) Ok.. I am just saying you will find the strength and courage you need to, to get thru this horrible time in your life and when all is said and done you will find that you are a stronger person because of this.. If you can say you learned anything from this then you have already started the process to healing. I wish you lots of stength to get thru this. Know we all care about you and our thoughts are with you.. You will be ok.. I just know it..
MY best, happy