Well I want to thank you for your comments and kind words of encouragement. I have tried to get him to go away with me for a weekend and he refuses, he says it won't help anyway. I talked with my husband tonight and asked him "what are we doing?" I miss him terribly and love him so much and he stated tonight that he wants a divorce. Such a blow. I wish he would go to counseling or something but no, he said he doesn't believe in counseling and said he just doesn't care anymore.