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Advice for talk with FDH about SS12

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Submitted by Preggo and Resentful on Mon, 06/17/2013 - 4:23pm

I need advice on how to talk to FDH about SS12's behavior in general, and over the past weekend as well as FDH's guilt parenting with him. I did talk to FDH Friday when I came back from picking up SS about my utter amazement at his disrespect that he shows to everyone including BM's mother and my MIL with his lack of communication or even eye contact.

The points that I want to make are:

I HATE THE WAY FDH ACTS WHEN SS12 COMES TO VISIT!!!!!!!!!! This kid is going to be the death of my relationship.

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Submitted by Preggo and Resentful on Fri, 06/14/2013 - 9:41am

So, today is the dreaded day that I get to spend over 3 hrs in the car going to pick up SS12 for Father's Day weekend to sit in silence with him since HE DOESN'T TALK. I've already made my plan for the trip. Since I'll need to eat between the time I leave and the time I get back, I'm doing it on my way there so I don't have to feed him. If BM's mom doesn't think to feed him, then he'll have to wait for his father to take care of it SINCE HE WON'T TELL ME IF HE'S HUNGRY ANYWAY. I'm not putting any music on in the car. He'll have to ask for it if he wants it on.

Father's Day...it's already starting to be a pain in the butt

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Submitted by Preggo and Resentful on Mon, 06/10/2013 - 9:56am

I swear I am developing a complex about myself due to this stepmom crap.

For Father's Day, I thought I'd be nice and take a half day from work on Friday to drive and pick up my stepson for the weekend(which equals over 3 hrs in the car for me at almost 6 months pregnant...not a fun time) to surprise my FDH on Friday when he comes home from work with him at our house. Of course, I knew he'd be seeing him for Father's Day, but I thought it'd be nice to have him at our house when FDH arrives home.

Parenting out of guilt should NOT be considered parenting

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Submitted by Preggo and Resentful on Fri, 05/31/2013 - 2:59pm

Ugh, here we go again. Last time it was $250 sneakers, now it's money being thrown away into games and apps for the cell phone.

FDH and I are expecting our first baby together in October for those that haven't read before. I also have a SS12 that lives in another state about an hour and a half away.

Tired & Feeling Alone

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Submitted by Preggo and Resentful on Wed, 04/17/2013 - 5:20am

My BF of 7 years and I are 13 weeks pregnant, and I am having a terrible pregnancy so far. We were told after 6 years of trying to conceive and 1 ectopic pregnancy that our only option would be IVF...well, here we are! Right now should be the happiest time of my life, right?! WRONG.