Ok so the story is that FDH married his crazy high school girlfriend, had SS10 and SS7 with her and eventually opened his eyes to what she was, divorced her, and things have gotten progressively worse with her and the skids over the last four or so years to where she falsely accused FDH of abuse, has tried to take the kids away, and now they are in state custody. Here is a little background with FDH's family, and I would love it if you would just state an opinion of what I think it says about my fears...

FDH has been so strong through all this mess with BM and the skids, but it's now taking it's toll more. The good is that he got visitation with SS10 Saturday after BM's turn,and is getting phone visitation every night with him (whereas BM isn't), so that's better. SS10 is holding up okay, He starts a 8 week parenting class tomorrow, his anger eval came back fine, and his psych eval is next week. He's worried about SS7. The social worker that was assigned to SS7's case is out of town.

I am so furious and frustrated and heartbroken again today. It comes in waves, I'm okay for a few days, then something new happens, and it crushes my spirit all over again.

For those who have been following, Skids gotbtaken from their mom and are in state custody. She filed for a TPO that ohe had no evidence to support, so it got dropped, but not before skids got taken, so because of that stuff FDJ was not able to get custody. So here's the update