Well, we did have a party for ss. (See blog...it's hitting the fan and I need advice.) We had a constant stream of phone calls from BM trying to sabotage it, as we expected. But HE (ss) did NOT get to leave ....(so proud of BF)and she is in all out war mode right now. BF explained to him that what BM did was wrong and that BM couldn't tell him (BF) what he could and couldn't do during the times that ss is with us and explained that when ss was with BM that he (BF) couldn't tell her what to do. It is so hard for the little guy,he is turning 8, but he caught on quick, understood, didn't give us too much of a tantrum, wanted to know why BM always does this, (which we didn't reply to). God only knows what drama we are in for this week with BM. I'm expecting many threats that we will never see ss again (which is BM's favorite threat.) I just thought it really sad that during such a special event in ss's life that she felt the need to show her ass. We did find out however that the party SHE had planned for him next weekend (her week) went bust.... adult SD informed us that BM is upset because every person invited has backed out and several people whom she invited such as her own mother and sisters declined and told her the reason they weren't coming is that they didn't want to see her or be involved with her drama. She has hurt so many people. I think it is sad...especially for ss. Just wanted to update as to what happened, hope everyone has a "drama--free" day. Much love!