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Submitted by non_mom23 on Thu, 04/02/2009 - 4:28pm

How do all of you women do it??? SD8 just got back from school after a night of staying with the BM (socio). I don't even want to look at SD, I don't want to even hear her voice or have her in my presence! How disturbing is that, I feel anxiety, I want to lash out, is this normal?? I don't even want her here right now.
I just overheard SD say what time the BM is picking her up tomorrow. What the hell!!??? I don't think so, we did not discuss this time and what is happening. I hate my life right now. I really do. Sorry for ranting...

My stomach is in knots...

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Submitted by non_mom23 on Tue, 03/17/2009 - 3:58pm

So the Socio is taking my H back to court for visitation, she wants joint custody of my SD8. My H has always had custody of her. H has apparently violated the visitation order of EOW and Weds. nights b/c the socio has regularly abused, physically and emotionally, my SD. H has not allowed socio more than a few hours Weds. nights.

so upset... P*&$ed...

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Submitted by non_mom23 on Sun, 03/15/2009 - 12:17pm

Okay, so my SD8 has her figure skating show all weekend. Who is the one that made sure she has everything ready? Has her hair and makeup done? Whose costume fits and is put on correctly? How gets her flowers and takes responsibility for everything??? ME ME ME!!! I don't mind but no appreciation. Guess what the Socio (BM) isn't even showing up!! Go figure, I'm actually happy.

custody hearing...BM wants joint of SD8

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Submitted by non_mom23 on Thu, 03/05/2009 - 11:40am

So the BM filed papers for joint custody of my SD8. This is hilarious b/c she is so unfit as a parent, H has always had full custody of SD. I know that if anything the judge will take away what rights this socio has to her daughter.

Anyway, I'm just wondering if it's likely that I will be called as a witness on behalf of my SD? If anyone has this experience or knows anything about the whole law guardian, lawyer vs. lawyer battle.

Reconciliation...Thank you!

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Submitted by non_mom23 on Sat, 02/28/2009 - 1:55pm

Thanks all for the support and advice. I was so nervous that my H and I were going to split, largely due to my moods. I underestimated him, big time. You're thoughts on this were helpful. He is trying to understand and possibly needs some time to understand the stress in our lives. Just wanted to say thanks...no split in sight!

Ready for a new more productive and positive day. Hope everyone is having a nice weekend.

How to reconcile???

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Submitted by non_mom23 on Fri, 02/27/2009 - 12:04pm

My H and I have been at each others throats lately.

I hope no one thinks too critically of me but I have bipolar disorder. I didn't want to bring it up but it's affecting my relationships with my H and SD. Lately I've been out of control, stressed to the max (I'm in college full-time) I can't sleep at all and am snapping at absolutely everything!!! My doc is trying different meds so something will work.

1st blog...confused!!!

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Submitted by non_mom23 on Wed, 02/25/2009 - 3:39pm

1st I'm happy to have found this site, I always and still kind of do feel alone when it comes to my situation. My husband, MG, and I have been married for 2 yrs, he has an 8 y/o, AG, from a previous "fling" you could call it. AG doesn't have much contact with her mother, a.k.a. the Socio. AG lives with us full-time. I'm basically the "mother" figure in her life and this is really taking a toll on me. I don't have any children myself and this is a hard role for me to fill.

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