Makes Me Want to Scream
BIOMOM is really on my nerves lately. she is doing her very best to ignore me and even to try to get sdaughter to be around just me less.
My mother in law just called me and biomom had called HER about the fact that she wasn't going to be able to pick stepdaughter up from daycare and that she wouldn't be able to take her to softball game. Why wouldn't she call stepdaughter's father, or me? Seems like she'd call one of us before her EX mother in law.
Anyway, she absolutely drives me bonkers. I have very strong urges to tell her to go jump off a cliff. (just kidding, but it really does infuriate me from time to time.)
Doesn't it seem a little over the top for her to think that she should be maintaining any relationship with her ex in-laws. Ex-husband, understood - you got a kid together; but ex-inlaws ---- I think that's being a tad delusional.
Do you agree?
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TO: New Stepmommy
Sounds a bit like my situation, biomom wants nothing to do with me. In my situation, biomom calls her ex-inlaws to arrange watching her son over school breaks and not even informing my husband and I, then I find out from in-laws that she called them to arrange that. I emailed biomom and told her to discuss any custody arrangement with us first and that the in-laws do not make that decision and that we do. She replied back and lashed out at me. I was pissed off...ever since and I just hate her guts. I know exactly how you feel... I then replied back to her and said "why are you so angry?, do want to meet up and discuss this because I'm not angry at all. I only said what I said because in-laws don't want to be stuck in the middle of the whole thing and wanted my husband & I to deal with her." She never responded back to me.