Ok need Advice
IF YOU ALL NEED MORE INFO ON STORY READ POST YESTERDAY ABOUT DH AND BM PIC)
Ok after three years of marraige to my DH me and his Ex wife finally got into it (by text messaging, not physical) other than today we have never really spoken to each other, we have been around each numerous times and have only said hello or goodbye or something like that....Ok add in the above story (post) and here is the end conclusion.....We went back and forth texting for about 2 hours...I started it by saying "my DH is getting his number changed, so you will have to speak to me or his mom" (Did this because of half naked pics being sent, her calling all times of day and night, and texting him nonstop).. he says he cant control her, so I said (CHANGE YOUR DAMN NUMBER!) Then she starts sending me all these hurtful messages (it is to be expected, but was surprised) I was surprised at just how much info she knew about me THANKS TO DH BIG ASS MOUTH!!!!!!!!!! she knew about all of our little arguments, little seperations (1 or 2 days), my miscarraiges (3)
I have two babies now !!! BACK TO MY STORY...so Im hurt that he talk to her this much about me/us ;......So here comes the threat "he cant see his kids" and if he calls the police and go over there with visitation papers she will lie and say me and dh house is unstable or whatever lie she comes up with......So this happened about 2 months ago it only lasted 3 weeks (no police involved that time) they just did not come over dh had to pick them up and spend time with them somewhere else ..While me his wife and 2 other babies stayed at home! But she is playing this same card...of course stupid DH acts like he will die if he does not see them/call her bluff and actualy not see them for at least a month to show her she is not running anything and split his family like that every other weekend. In one of her texts she even said "When he sees that you are the reason he cant see his kids watch how strong his love is for you and your kids!" Basically saying that he will leave us to go see his two kids he had with her...WHICH he did last time! Im afraid he will forget about my feelings and ask me to toughen up and think about the kids...Then she will win again
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Whatever you do, save the
Whatever you do, save the texts! If she does try to get in the way of the court order, you'll have proof she is lying.
YES - how could she be so
YES - how could she be so stupid as to put stuff like that in WRITING??!??
Love it when they dig their own graves.
And, yes, I wonder about that H of yours...
Absolutely save everything
Absolutely save everything you get from her.
More importantly, your husband is not to be trusted. He is a liar & an emotional cheater. He has been confiding in his ex-wife & sharing the most intimate details about your marriage, & ABOUT YOU. He has no business sharing details of your life, with him or without him, with her.
He sounds like an ass. If your feelings are so easy for him to forget...if his feelings for you are so easy for him to forget, the best thing you can do for YOU & YOUR CHILDREN is let him go back to her. Let her have his lying ass. Get him out of the house, take him for child support, & make a life for you & yours.
She didnt send those texts to
She didnt send those texts to me about the lying stuff, she called DH during our text war and told him this on the phone ...she would go that far to say I did something to kids or in front of kids just to stop them from coming over.....I did not say anything bad if anything she said she would kick my ass! my reponse was "whatever, Im not going to stoop to your ghetto way of handling things" But however they have disappeared everything else is here (texts messages) Im at work so I know nobody erased them but i cant find that one!
ok druzilla so am I wrong, I
ok druzilla so am I wrong, I was just tired of being in the dark so I shook the table a little. But Im not really worried about her, but im tired of the texting and the calling, he said this was the only naked pic the others are of the kids ..... and all that info she knew about me really made me angry...and believe me I got in DH butt about it! I just could not sit and do nothing again that last stunt I didnt say anything....I never say anything but that pic I found made me angry so thats when I started acting childish....I should have not done any of this
Some men LOVE two women
Some men LOVE two women "fighting" over them. It gives them a cheap thrill and they find it oddly flattering.
BLEECH!!
show her she is not running
show her she is not running anything and split his family like that
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Your DH is splitting your family!! Not BM. I hate to be harsh, but something is rotten with your DH. Please take care and protect yourself.
He is very upset now! and
He is very upset now! and sees how much trouble it has caused, she is talking about removing child support so he does not have to see him... (I think this is a threat) she not stopping her money! but I asked him a few minutes ago what is he going to do? He said he don't know somebody just gonna have to be mad......so I said you gonna do what you did last time just go get them and leave me at home? he said he did not know, but if she wont release the kids to him I feel he will just go get them .....just stay posted yall and remember my name im on here at least twice a week ..i will keep you updated ...starting tommorow morning I will let you know what he said after thinking about it all day
I agree. There is no way in
I agree. There is no way in hell I'd put up with my DH's skank ex wife sending naked pics and him keeping them. If he felt he needed to he could just go be with the worthless piece of trash - mainly because if he was looking at THAT behind my back I'd know he had lost it. She's about 90 pounds soaking wet and looks like a crack whore. If he needs that to look at naked when there are Playboy playmates out there he can look at - like men do you say - then see ya!
And as for telling stuff about your marriage - bullshit. Total bullshit. Why are you letting him even around? He needs to know full out how wrong he's been..no way in hell he should even be telling her even as much as what you all ate for supper one night.
He's still emotionally attached to this bitch. LARGE changes are needed to be made or he can get out..for real.
Sexting is a crime. Call the
Sexting is a crime. Call the police. Show them the text from her and the attached photo. They'll go arrest her and u have custody of the kids from here on out.
Are you sure about that? I
Are you sure about that? I was under the impression sexting was only a crime if at least one of the participants was a minor, and even then, it wasn't the "sexting" itself that was a crime, but rather the posession of child pornography if the subject was the minor or distributing pornography to a minor if the recipient was the minor.