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O.T/ Is it ok to overstepp with someone elses parenting in your house?

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My brother's girlfriend is here because she asked me to help her throw a surprise party for my brother. I really don't like her at all but I'm biting the bullet for my brother. She arrived in a barely there tube dress with all over her tattoos showing and I hope she has on underwear because if she bends over I might see more of her than I ever wanted to. She is only 22 with a five year old and two year old (neither from my brother) . I'm not judging her for having kids but her parenting skills are lacking.

My own mom is acting like "that BM". What do I do?

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My SM called and told me she want's to come down within the next two weeks to hang out and see baby because she hasn't been able to see him sense he was like a month old. My dad probably won't be able to come with her because he has a lot to tend to with the farm which is always his excuse and it hurts but that is another blog another day lol. Anyways my SM is a girl after my own heart I have gotten close with her over the last 10 years. I enjoy her company and I honestly have more in common with her than my own mom.

BM believes in Reptilians and mermaids

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Before I head out I want to share some of the stupid crap BM1 spews. I just remembered this and want to share before I forget again. Ok BM1 was talking to DH a while ago and trying to tell him about some crazy crap that she heard of and that there is proof that through the evolution process not only did we evolve into humans but some evolved into reptilians that can shape shift and they live among us and there is even proof in the bible.

I am woman hear me ROAR!

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For all of you wondering how I am doing. DH decided to finally come home last night around 5. I checked his credit card he went to a hotel. Then he spent the day at my brother's house stewing. So my brother's ass is in hot freaking water for not telling me anything. DH gave me a lot of BS apology crap and even started to cry. I took his credit card and took me and baby to a nice hotel for a few days on him. I told him he can pick up his kids from his mom's and to not call me because I won't answer since he couldn't answer his damn phone.

DH continuing to be an ass and I'm done crying ( at least I want to be)

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Last night after everything was said DH came home from work and just ignored me. I tied to talk calmly he just ignored me. I tried to hand baby to him and ask him to watch him while I showered he just kept his back to me and walked away ignoring me. So I ended up taking a bath with baby. I come into the room to DH laying on the bed naked with the blanket only covering his naughty bits. I put baby in his crib.

DH: You wanna taste some lolipop

ME: Really? after you just told me you only had BS to make me happy and then you ignored me all day.

DH doent want more babies and he didn't want BS8months

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MY DH is being an ass! I'm not sure what got into him but I being crying my freaking eyes out. DH has been telling me for like a year even when I was pregnant with BS that once BS turns 1years old we can have another baby if we can afford it. I brought it up to him today that since I just got a promotion that we can afford another baby. He says.

DH: To be honest I don't want anymore kids I just said that to make you happy.

ME: Stop playing

DH: I'm serious

O.T/ He said "ma ma"

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First of all thank you guys for all of your support I TOOK THE PROMOTION Biggrin but I asked my boss for a day or two to make sure this is what I want but I am pretty sure. This day could not be anymore perfect. I just got home and baby was waking up from his nap. With his little sausage roll legs stretching and his huge blue eyes opening. I was brushing his white blonde hair with my fingers and saying "ma ma is home, ma ma is home".

Invsible and depressed

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I feel like no one can take the time to care about me today. I got a call from my boss asking me to come in tomorrow afternoon to talk about a promotion. This is huge news. I told DH and he is just worried that with the promotion comes more hours and more responsibilities for me which I understand but a congratulations or an I'm proud of you would have been nice.

My brother wants to marry a BM :(

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My brother came to me and asked me how he should propose to his GF. I choked on my broccoli and feta pizza. This girl is 22 and has two kids by two different fathers. She dresses like she just stepped off a pole. Every time I see her she has a bottle or a glass of alcohol in her hand. She makes me think of how BM2 probably was when she was younger. She is always cursing at her kids and she believes in spanking even her youngest who is only 2. I don't understand what my brother sees in her. I think he will be making the biggest mistake of his life by marrying her.

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