That everything is my fault and I've ruined all their happy divorced lives. Let's see BM, because you've been incapable of handling your ex's relationship after YOU divorced him and have acted like an immature baby:

- you are no longer included in family events (this would have continued to be the case had you not spewed your venom all over)

- I've disengaged from your kid that you've PAS'd the crap out of. How did this hurt me? Oh, glad you asked. Now instead of spending time with miserable SD the weekends she's here I get to leave the house alone and do whatever I want kid free

- the relationship between father and daughter is damaged requiring your daughter to attend therapy because you've driven a wedge between a child and her committed father

- so stop complaining when she doesn't want to come here and visit with her dad because evil horrible needalifeboat is in the house. Sorry you had plans and had to cancel them because of your daughter's stubborn refusal to see me. You've created this problem.

- oh and your younger daughter? The one it didn't work on? She wants to be here all the time! She is tired of your constant conflict and BS, realizes I'm not the monster you describe and because of the increased visitation we've gotten child support lowered. Yay us!

So to recap, your asshole mother of the year incapable of acting like and adult doucheness has hurt one person the very most...your oldest daughter. Congrats. Glad you finally admitted it.