I just discovered a 7 am text from BM to DH last Sunday that read, "Tell your girl to be nice to our son". As usual DH didn't bother responding. He also didn't mention it to me as he probably didn't want me to respond or get upset either.

But here are a few of the things I'd like to say.

First of all, I'm a 40 year old woman - hardly a "girl". Yes, I may look young and youthful and clearly I'm better looking and younger looking than you (even though you are 3 years my junior), but I am no girl. I am a woman. A daily mother to your child and my own. I am a wife to a man that I didn't have to get knocked up by in order for him to marry me. I am a professional which means that I support myself, my children and my family.

Now you, you are the girl. No responsibility. Abandoning your son when he was 5 and your husband of 2 years, so you could smoke pot and drink on a daily basis (see, now I did that in college many, many years ago, but I digress). You are not even mature enough to admit your sexual preference to your son or anyone else - even though you are mooching off the woman you left your DH and son for many years ago, yet you cheat on her too.

You are the girl that complains about your child's father - the father that has gladly taken care of your child since day one when you would tell him it wasn't your job because you never wanted him anyway.

Thanks for the text. You are such a protective mother and do so much for your son during your EOWe visits that MY HUSBAND AND I forced you to have. Glad you utilize the time to attempt to convince your son that I am mean to him. I guess the health insurance,doctor and counselor visits, meals, home, pets, private school education, homework help, school involvement, activities and family I provide him on a daily basis is just something that you can't comprehend given your heroine-addicted mother didn't seem to be interested in raising you either.