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Naturelover's picture

Submitted by Naturelover on Wed, 07/13/2022 - 7:33pm

I am trying so hard to be strong right now but just desperately want to reach out to my husband. I haven't spoken to him in two days- left so I could have time to think on my own. I miss him and so wish things were different. Trying so hard to remember that we are where we are because of BOTH of us, not just me

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JRI's picture

Submitted by JRI on Wed, 07/13/2022 - 7:55pm

I was reading some of your blogs and ypu are doing the right thing for your own self.  But the first days are SO hard.  I cried every day after splitting with my impossible, druggie ex.  It will slowly get better but you're going thru the worst right now.  Hang in there, Naturelover, there are better days in your future.

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Submitted by Rags on Wed, 07/13/2022 - 8:09pm

It is important that you be the best you.  He needs to come to an epipany that you are not the problem.  He owns at least half of it.

Take care of yourself.

Give rose

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Submitted by simifan on Thu, 07/14/2022 - 8:46am

My BFF Said something to me on my last break up. "You don't miss him, you miss the man you thought he was." It was very very true. He was a liar, manipulator & a cheat. This time round go find that ideal man.  

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Submitted by StepUltimate on Thu, 07/14/2022 - 8:53am

So true. 100% true. 

Your brain knows what your heart can't bear to believe.

I am sorry. (((HUGS!)))