So, here's the thing... I've finally reached my breaking point. I know some of yall told me to find an exit once I gather my resources. Indeed I have gathered more than that. I have stop giving a damn. lmbo My oldest step son had told his mom that he got bit by a bug from a hotel that we stayed when we didn't have any hot water. When his mom told me that, I've looked at him. I looked her and told her that he told me that he was bit by a bug from her house. I looked at him and said how he has lost my trust and have no respect for adult's business. When I was done with him, she comofrt him and enable him to start crying, knowing damn well, he never cried when I've scolded him verbally. ANYWAY!!! after that, I've told my husband how she can no longer come in here while he is at home or at work. She is to wait in her car for her kids to come out of the house. You'll be surprised how pursuasive a woman can be towards her husband. All it took was for me to get him in a way that I can have what I've wanted and BOOM!!! My peace was restored. I'e warned them that either they can give me my respect, or I will take it by force. By the way, have I mention that she is almost 30 and still don't want to leave her mom's home. Her mom is engaged to a new man, and this bastard is still spoiled by her. My step sons see this and are being done the same way. My kids aren't perfect but they have enough brains to know that when I say no, it's not request.... 

Also, she came to me a while ago askig about me locing my stepson hair, I've started but combed it out because they were being rude to me constantly. When I've told her that, she decided to still do what they've wanted. That's fine and dandy since they are her boys. I've educated her on hair care since I am a beautician and loctician. However, she once again is stupid and don't listen. Low and behold, she called my phone whining because one of the boys here didn't loc up right away like she wanted. Plus, the lady that did it, wanted to charge her $20 extra of what she was already paying for. Yea, Karm is a bitch. 

Now, what did we learn? We've learned that dumb people will always try to start confusion, especially, their own children. However, when you know who you are and what you are able to do... They know better to try you. I rest my case... to be continued. lol