I am at a crossroads.....
:? I feel very torn between my DH & my middle BC ( son age 8 )..After what happened last july ( see my first blog )..Dh does not want anything to do with my BS 8...I have tried to be understanding but its been almost 8 months & my son has not been to my house to visit yet...I understand my DH is hurt/angry....BUT I love my son too not just my DH..I told my DH today that if my son is never gonna be able to come to my house than " I don't think there is a future for me and him " ...He went postal..I said what would he of done if SD had done to me what my BS did to him his answer ...." I would of sent her back to her mom permanently "....I am NOT that way I will NOT get rid of my kid....I love my DH but I am at a breaking point..my kids will always be in my life & NO man is worth losing your kids over !!!!!!!
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I have seen MY son many times
I have seen MY son many times in the last 8 months he just has not stayed at my home...from july to december he was not able to stay at my home till all court cost were payed & dh case closed...DH had to go through 12 weeks of classes, go to court twice & pay 250$ in court cost before everything was dropped...during all that time I could not have my son at my house though I saw him other places...
I can see your DH's point, I
I can see your DH's point, I would have nothing to do with that child especially since he could cost your DH his own children. What about seeing BS somewhere else? Parents, studio apt, hotel?
I don't know. I've got to
I don't know. I've got to say, the kid is only 8. He freaked out, for whatever reason, and here are the results. I think he needs to be given a second chance. If I was your SO, I would refuse to be alone with him, but I don't think it's fair to ask you to completely not see him. He's 8, not 18, and he likely didn't think long-term about the consequences of his actions.