We are all losing it...
This is going to be the weekend from hell.
I spend an hour on the phone with SD13 last night listening to her melt down and scream and cry and bawl her eyes out because she doesn't want to come to our house this weekend. The reason? She wants to see her "boyfriend" and she knows her dad wont let her go out with him alone. This kid was in full on meltdown mode. BM said she finally fell asleep at midnight and woke up freaking out again this morning.
Already I've talked to them twice today and shes freaking out because she wants to go home early Sunday morning so BM can take her to see her boyfriend. BM said if we don't let her go home early on Sunday to see him then shes not making her come to our house. She will take her to a friends house after school so we cant pick her up.
This is just insane! And SO is away for work again up North with no cell reception!
If only drinking wine at work at 8:30am was socially acceptable.......
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He will be home. He comes
He will be home. He comes home tonight. She is never at our house unless he is there.
In reply to Not my monkey.
In reply to Not my monkey. Not my circus, I needed a good laugh! I'm going to use that.
I can't believe a BM is
I can't believe a BM is actually entertaining this crap. I'd shut this down real quick!
What the hell? does she not
What the hell? does she not see her "boyfriend" at school every day? And why is BM facilitating a fucking 13 year old being ALONE with her "boyfriend" ?
No this kid doesn't go to her
No this kid doesn't go to her school. BM is nuts and thinks its ok for her to be alone with him. She drove her to their first date last week to the movies. She just dropped her off, didn't stay. SD has a history of being incredibly inappropriate with boys. She has been caught SEVERAL times sexing and sending inappropriate pics of herself to boys. But BM doesn't get it. She thinks a 13 y/o should be allowed to have a boyfriend. Yeah, NORMAL 13 year olds have boyfriends. This 13 year old is NOT normal! She has proved that she cannot be trusted with boys!
BM actually said to me last
BM actually said to me last night "Why does he care if she has a boyfriend? I had all kinds of boyfriends when I was 13." It took everything in me not to laugh in her face. Its like she wants SD to turn into a slut bag like her! Like you, I don't understand why they encourage this stuff! maybe its because they are blinded because its their own child? I can't figure it out.
I told her about that last
I told her about that last night. She asked me why she had to come and why we couldn't give her a choice and I told her it is law and that both her and BM can get in a lot of trouble. That freaked her out and she cried even more. BM had the nerve to say "Well what do I do? Do I throw her in the car? Whats the age that shes allowed to decide?".
I asked my cousin, who is a lawyer, and he said in Canada there is no age. Until she is 18 she has to come. The only way would be for BM to take us to court, and even in that case she would have to have a damn good reason for not wanting to come, such as abuse. He said judges will never side with bratty kids who just don't want to go to their NCP house. He said a judge will just tell her to suck it up lol
If you are crying and melting
If you are crying and melting down and throwing a two-year-old-temper-tantrum about not seeing your boyfriend... perhaps you are too young/immature to have a boyfriend
I tried to help her out and
I tried to help her out and said that if it was really that important that she see him this weekend then she should ask her dad if he can come over for dinner or watch a movie with us or something, but there is no way in hell he is going to let her go out alone with this kid. That wasn't good enough for her and she said she didn't want to do that. So tough luck! I gave her an option and she didn't like it so now she gets nothing. She doesn't know the meaning of compromise.
I totally agree. I feel for
I totally agree. I feel for her somewhat because I know shes upset but she just needs to understand that she cant be trusted with boys. I gave her the option of him coming to our house and she said no.