So it was MIL 70th Birthday party this past weekend. We had family here from Cali and everyone else plus about 30 guests. SO invited SD and of course she came. He also did attend the wedding (if you all read my blogs you know what that's about) and I stayed behind at MIL with the rest of the family. And yes they were asking why I did not attend with SO and his kids... but that's not what I'm hear bitching about today... UGH So SD decided to stay with her Gf in the town we live in after the wedding was over. And SO had told her WITHOUT ASKING ME that she could come to OUR house at 5am (the other girl had to leave that early for sports). So when he came back from the wedding I was hella instant pissed off. First of all he should have asked me. She hasn't even made an effort to do anything regarding her bullshit attitude. Luckily for both of them when I got up Sunday she wasn't there. She decided to just stay at her friends and sleep until he came to get her. He picked her up at 8:30am and drove her back to her grandmothers.

Later that day we all went to MIL's house to visit the family that we haven't seen for a long time. I think it's been almost 7 years for my SO having seen his Aunt and Uncle. And so on our way SO asked me if he could ask SD if she wanted to come over. I of course said yes that's fine it doesn't really matter to me. There are no words exchanged between us it's pretty much assnine but what ever. So he called her and asked her. She said yes. Well we got there and everybody was hungry since we had all been in the mountains all day riding four wheelers etc. SO family is seriously picky so everyone just kinda grouped together on what they wanted. All the guys wanted pizza and bread sticks and us ladies wanted chinese. So MIL, myself SIL and her daughter and our aunt all went down to get take out. SD still had not shown up by this time. We all got back to the house (SD17 STILL not there) all us ladies sat down at the table and dished out all the chinese food. SD and her friend come waltzing through the front door. None of us really turned around as we were all dishing up our food and laughing and talking about how they always give so much food and how would we eat all of it etc. And the guys were watching the big golf thing that was on. So SO was the only one who aknowledged her when her and her friend walked through the door. Which INSTANTLY pissed her off. She through herself on the couch with attitude. BIL asked her whats wrong. She gave him stink eye and said nothing. Then she got up stomped to the kitchen and announced they were leaving and she didn't want any pizza. Then proceeded to say how RUDE we were for not asking her to go with us when we got chinese. And she hates us all and how mean it was.... UM HELLO?! She wasn't there!!!! And we had enough food for her to come over and eat. ALL the other teens came over grabbed a plate and ate. Heck SS11 stuck his fingers right in my plate and took my food. Seriously she was pissed off because we didn't jump to our feet when she entered the room and beg her to come sit with us. Well I'm sorry but everyone is pretty much FED UP with her drama....

So it gets even better...... BM's mom calls MIL house. MIL answers and hands phone to SO. Then she says SD has run off. THEN her little friend comes over and says SD ran away. BLA BLA BLA...... over freaken CHINESE FOOD? So of course he goes looking for her. Which is WHAT SHE WANTS. I'm pist off so I'm going to take my daddy away from all the laughing and having fun so his time can be ruined too! So he went out looking for her. In the mean time BM calls MIL house!!! MIL is like I'm not answering I have company and I'm not playing this game anymore. So.... I answered. BM asked for MIL. I said to her well she doesn't want to talk to you, she has company and she is not getting in the middle of all this drama and frankly neither am I. Then the CONTROL freak that BM is says, "SHE SAID NO?" I said yep she sure did. Then she hung up.

SO comes home. He didn't find SD. Then he gets a call from BM (yes all of this is going on in front of all this family) and she is screaming about how this is unforgivable and he is an adult and SD is the child HE hung up on her. :jawdrop: Then a few minutes later her gets a threatening text I want the boys at my house Sunday by 6pm (she is 6 hours away AND um in their papers they meet half way) he didn't respond. Then about ten minutes later she texts. I'm not upset can you go someplace private so we can talk.

So what does SO do....... he leaves and goes to talk to BM for an hour and a half. In the mean time all of the family is like what is going on? Is it always like this? Why is he calling her? Why is he putting up with this shit? What the hell is the deal? Of course I was a wreck and probably said things I shouldn't but I'm so FED up with all this damn bullshit every single day.

This morning my son got back from his seven days with his dad and I was so happy to see him I cried. Right now I feel that is the only part of my life that there is happiness.

So another summer weekend full of drama....... over stupid ass shit. Because she didn't get the attention she so thinks she deserves.